Head blown, cant sleep, need help!! could change PE forever

[prjav]

i talked for like 4 hours with a girl ive been sleeping with. Right now im speechless, we ended the conversation at 3am, its 6:30 here and i cant sleep. this could render a popular PE technique useless.

the thing that blew my mind was that we talked about sex. She told me i am the guy that has lasted her the longest :( she told me she kinda prefers guys that cum early or normally. like 15 minutes or less:neut::confused: ive done edging to be able to last like 40 - 60 minutes. she told me this words: sometimes less is more. it kinda gets annoying, not that it feels bad, but that i want to end that one. you cum we can continue going. since you last that long on your first im scared you might last longer on your second.

why? i said.

if you cum, we get some time to play again and do other stuff. my horny state will not decrease, it will continue going up and up and you would make me cum. we can continue doing it and you and i can cum many times.

.......... - i said

are you ok - she

i can do two at most since my penis stays erect in upwards of 30 minutes. im always thinking, monitoring my body, correcting my breath, my movement so i can last more ect ect. i said

she- for you its not pleasurable, its work, its a chore.

me- ...........



right when i felt like a stud, im being shot down to earth. i cant get on my head and enjoy it. i gotta let it go, and just ... let it go, have fun and keep going.

unless you have premature ejaculation, stop doing edging right now. the more i think about previous girls the more i think about this being true.

I dont know where i stand know. I want more testosterone in my body, i want more sexual energy... i want the animal part to take over and just do, not think...

this post feels like a disorganized bunch of ideas. believe me, it is. this is harder than when i was lasting little, this is my ego in the highest point of my sexuality being slammed into the shitter. shes totally cool with me though.


what the fuck should i do know, work 20 minutes jack offs and try it simultaneous so i can practice continuity? do i go the natural way and achieve it by practice(havent been fucking much though) i will continue edging but what the fuck do it think? do?


non related note or is it?: read that brazilian nuts give you a pretty strong pump in your testosterone and it also has a lot of phosphorus. a bunch every day or a bunch couple hours before gives you a nice pump. not 100% sure until i test it. I FUCKING WILL ASAP.

[w3]

First off, never take the word of one person, or girl as the undeniable law of the universe.

Sure, sometimes less is more. And women do love when we are enjoying ourselves, but not coming too fast.
Also, you can really be enjoying and not cum, and they will fucking love that hour session you provide.

What she said is correct, if you need to concentrate too much on not cumming, your penetration will be reduced to nothing more than what the name suggests.. mechanical in-out motion.
There's nothing worse for a girl than a guy who lasts long, and does not spark any passion.

I've always been a marathon fucker, I love to do the deed for hours. Foreplay needs to go so far that the girl is begging for you to fuck her, and then making her beg even more.

And when you are actually fucking, don't fuck for an hour in missionary. That shit is boring.
Lift that bitch in the air and do some airborne, and move on to the kitchen counter.

If you have an elevator in your building, try suggesting going in there for a few minutes.

You could also do a slowing down, and eventually stopping.
Fuck passionately for 15-30 minutes (like that girl you talked about likes it), then tell her you want to take a cooling shower with her.
Take her to the shower, and run some cool water. Kiss and caress eachother under that cool stream of water, and maybe give her some head while she stands there.

If you are really sneaky, you could try turning the water colder bit by bit, and possibly making her cum. After that you could turn her around aggressively and fuck her from behind in the shower.

You can easily transfer from there back to the bed, or the sofa, or the fucking balcony.
Do all kinds of kinky stuff, tell her you fucking love it, tell her that there's never been a woman so intense as her.

What I just wrote... well, sorry about that.
Just an example, and you can do a lot more.

Enjoying fucking a girl doesn't necessarily mean cumming.. Of course that is what they prefer, but you can fool that part of their brain by 'scheduling' the fuck in the way I described.

Even though I preferrably have sex for long periods of time, sometimes a short but intense session can hit the spot better than a longer one.
The reason why girls usually say they prefer shorter over longer sessions is the fact that they've never been with a guy who can really keep the emotions and passion going.

You need to be that guy.
There's really no point in lasting long, if you are not engaging the girl, not looking at her, because you need to control your ejaculation.
And paying attention to her beautiful.. voluptious body.. looking at her gorgeous eyes, and smelling her her.... would make you CUM.

Lasting long, while enjoying, and engaging, AND being passionate.
That's what a real good lover can do.

[w3]

Of course being able to cum many times, and stepping back up to the game can be an advantage.
But it is something you may lose with age nonetheless.
So what you need to practice is having that intense drive, fucking her like she's the only girl in the world, for the whole hour.

I can cum many times, but when a girl is begging for me to cum during a long session.. usually I won't.
Sometimes that can work as a tease, and make them even more excited.
And I also tell them I like to cum once... and real real hard.

I want to shoot a load that could choke a goddamn elephant.

I do that mostly for me, because I prefer to cum only once. Because it just feels so much better than a few smaller orgasms.

though... sometimes cumming 5 times can be really refreshing.. and make the girl feel really special.
Because no one ever came that many times with her.

But seriously man, don't take everything a girl says to heart so easily.
You need to have a much thicker skin than that!

[w3]

Oh yeah.. and one thing also.

I believe that edging can also help with being able to cum multiple times.
Because you are training the parts of your manhood that can either make you cum faster, or delay ejaculation.

What you can do now is, in order to training yourself to cum multiple times, jerk off.
Train by yourself.

Or with that girl you are sleeping with, if she's hot enough, she could make it easier.

You just need to make the blueprint in your brain, that there is a possible method of action when penis stimulus is received.
When you hardwire your brain into that new format, you are trying to tell it that the function of your penis doesn't have to end in one or two ejaculation.

And that can only be achieved through training.

Edging, and kegeling is beneficial to this type of training, so don't forget to perform them.

Other possible options include self motivation, self mantra's, and meditating.
Tell your brain what you want to achieve, picture it in your mind, picture yourself actually achieving in it.

Do that every day, many times a day.
Yell inside your head that you CAN cum 10 times in a row!

All the best to ya prjav. :hug:

[prjav]

thank you w3. lm pretty much shocked by all that shit that we talked.

ill be happy with my life as soon as i am in good shape, and amazing lover and i have a decent job. Right now i thought i had one down and i clearly dont. so i guess im working towards all 3 of them.


feels like when you know santa is not real :(