What is love?

['TheBugKahuna']

How do you know when you are in love?

[wern]

I don't think you can tell. Just focus on enjoying all the good feelings you have, and don't bother about trying to understand/label them.

[Clockers]

When you can't think of nothing else but being with that person plain & simple! :cool

[wern]

sounds more like infatuation than love to me

[ArTee63]

Have you been smitten, Bug?

[Shane_Bos]

I always heard that 'you just know' when you're in love and thus, you asking this question means that you are not. But thats just what ive been told. Never ever been in love so i couldnt tell ya. Maybe some married members of CC may be able to, they must have been in love at some point.

[Valk]

I dont see the point in knowing whether you're in love or not. Emotions arent that black and white and you shouldnt worry if you can't label the preconceived emotions that our world came up with.

In other words, listen to Wern.

[darkwarrior]

when all you think about is that special someone. She never leaves your mind and you can't take her out of your mind. This could also be a stalker mentality but who's to judge that :wink:

[Bobo]

People talk about "love" like it would be some sort of thing You can see and touch, some sort of on/off thingy. Personally, I don't think there is any magical dimension called "love", only different levels of affection, from which the stronger end is called "love". In my opinion, love is the level of affection where You need that person in Your life and feel like You can't live without her (or him). The real "love" as I understand it, comes only after living years in the relationship, when You really start to know the other person on deeper levels than just the physical level that's very present in new relationships. People think they're "in love" when they really enjoy the company of someone, but the real affection that can propably be called "love" is the one that lasts through the normal everyday life for years, with all the ups and downs, and not only a few exciting and creative dates.

[HungWong]

damn bobo, thats some deep stuff... making me re-evaluate the relationship im in right now...

[wern]

if u got anything negative out of it dont listen to bobo. just keep having sex.

(Spike love's to hear this :mrgreen )

[BIGOKE]

Maybe some married members of CC may be able to, they must have been in love at some point.
Still in love bro 8 years later. And my wife is quite a difficult person. But you know what? Her every movement, thought and plans are almost always about me first and damn the rest of the world. Sometimes I don't give her the same courtesy and it makes me feel bad, but damn I'm still in love with her. In the beginning its just attraction and sex but later its intellect, courage and commitment. So if you find one like that don't let it go.

[Steve Madden]

It's when you resist powerful urges (sexual or otherwise) because you care more about the person and their happiness than doing what makes you feel better. Hence I do my best to workout, work, drink, read, whatever to keep me from bothering my ex about how I feel about her.

[The Assman]

It's when you resist powerful urges (sexual or otherwise) because you care more about the person and their happiness than doing what makes you feel better. Hence I do my best to workout, work, drink, read, whatever to keep me from bothering my ex about how I feel about her.
AMEN...you never really notice when it exactly happens...it just does...for me, i just realized, wow, i miss her an it been 2 days...you dont just wanna see her/him...you need them! i dont beleive in love at first sight...total bullshit in my mind, others may disagree...i beleive what bobo said...i dont need the girl i met last week, i need my girlfriend that i have been with for the last three years.

[wern]

What ever happened to bug????:shock:

[zwmusic]

Hence I do my best to workout, work, drink, read, whatever to keep me from bothering my ex about how I feel about her.

I'm sure you've done your best on the highlight... Did you notice that this thread was only 2 and a half years old before you posted your reply? :lol: :lol: Amazing is... how on earth you found it?

[Steve Madden]

Haha, I think it was a trawling session one evening that took me deep into CC history. The good knews is I found the Assman thread in the process. The less good news is I started talking about my sad lost love situation. Good with the bad I suppose; hope springs eternal, at least in the generalized abstract sense.

[TheThreatdown]

How do you know when you are in love?

When your life seems incomplete and sort of pointless without them.

I'm not 100% happy when my baby isn't with me. (obviously we keep our privacy and personal hobbies too... but, I just like knowing I can be with her whenever)

[Steve Madden]

It is indeed a nice feeling. Another good indicator of love is if you're an ass for a long time and then she decides to break it off, and then there's a lingering sadness that permeates everything even after the initial ups and downs of the breakup level out. You're a little sad even when you're feeling good, and there's not a whole hell of a lot that you can do but wait it out, make good use of your time, and hope for the best.

Other, happier indicators include butterflies that last past six months or so, feelings of warmth when the person is around, passing up awesome concert tickets so she doesn't spend the night alone (well, I guess that's a little sad), etc.

[The Assman]

The feeling when shes says to you....i dont care if you go to strip club on a weekly basis, and ya tonight after we watch the hockey game together naked drinking beer, we can enjoy a nice little round of anal sex! Thats when you know you are in love!:twisted:

[Steve Madden]

I prefer the vagina myself, but that notion of watching hockey togethor naked is easily the hottest thing I've heard all day. And I don't even care for hockey! Causal nudity is great when they're hot.

[K-man]

The feeling when shes says to you....i dont care if you go to strip club on a weekly basis, and ya tonight after we watch the hockey game together naked drinking beer, we can enjoy a nice little round of anal sex! Thats when you know you are in love!:twisted:

Yeah, and then the alarm goes off and you have to stop dreaming!! :lol: :lol:

[zwmusic]

The feeling when shes says to you....i dont care if you go to strip club on a weekly basis, and ya tonight after we watch the hockey game together naked drinking beer, we can enjoy a nice little round of anal sex! Thats when you know you are in love!:twisted:

You've been looking at this... http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/1213/xxxxr8.jpg too much. :lol:

[Shane_Bos]

Since my last post in the thread i met a girl and fell in love. Weve been apart for 4 months now and i still think about her all the time. We still speak cos id rather have her in my life as a friend then not at all. Even though it hurts to just see her and not kiss her sometimes. Its hard to ignore her cos we hang with the same people - she cheerleads for my American footy team. Damn i miss her :x

[The Assman]

You've been looking at this... http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/1213/xxxxr8.jpg too much. :lol:
Yes i have....damnit, i just wanna try it!!!:evil:

[EndorphinMachine]

^:lol: You must master pursuajion first

[G-Spot19]

Or a slut that already likes it. Talking most girls into anal is harder than pushing a mountain backwards.

[The Assman]

damn, i gotta bust out my italian for her, maybe ease her into it and then offer her a million bucks cash!:mrgreen

[G-Spot19]

Good idea. When all else fails, pay. Or better yet, around here, offer pills :lol:

[The Assman]

tylenol would actually gt her to do that?:shock: :cool

[G-Spot19]

f they are a cheap lay maybe.:lol: But some peroxin, Xanax, prozac, and vicodin, a Lortab will work for your more trashed girls.:lol:

[The Big Banana]

Sage advice G.

[zwmusic]

damn, i gotta bust out my italian for her

Amore mio, lo ha lasciato attaccare il mio penis nel vostro bello culo… vedrete le stelle più belle nel cielo… NON BASTA UN BELLO CULO PER FARE UNA BELLA DONA SE UN PENIS NON LO SPINGE! :mrgreen

[EndorphinMachine]

Amore mio, lo ha lasciato attaccare il mio penis nel vostro bello culo… vedrete le stelle più belle nel cielo… NON BASTA UN BELLO CULO PER FARE UNA BELLA DONA SE UN PENIS NON LO SPINGE! :mrgreen

Lemme try and translate that for the other members:

My love, I want stick my dick in your ass... see the most beautiful stars on the sky...a beatiful ass is not enought to make a lady beautiful unless a penis fucks it!

did I get that right? more or less?..:lol:

[zwmusic]

Spot on EM. What do you think of this romantic line for your lady? Would that cause only one black eye...? Then you're doing great! :lol:

[The Assman]

I could say that...and she`d blush, shes french and dont know a damn word in italian, cant teach her...but now maybe i dont want to!:twisted:

[G-Spot19]

That was the funniest damn thing i heard all day. And damn, its been a funny day. That was great. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[The Assman]

maybe ill just pay her some money! When in dougt...pay cash!

[zwmusic]

It would be very embarrassing if the cheque bounces...

[EndorphinMachine]

It would be very embarrassing if the cheque bounces...
and yet incredibly hilarious:lol:

[Rum_Runner]

How do you know when you are in love?


You want to shoot yourself:neut:

[G-Spot19]

Damn you got that right. Love is one of the most incredible and horrible emotions a person can feel.

[The Big Banana]

Love is when I look in the mirror.

[Rum_Runner]

It is the worst possible drug. It burns you and you know it does. As soon as you have it there is nothing but pain. The pain makes you come back for more. Wish there was words to explain it. But there is not. It is like nothing you can feel, good bad awsome awfull. Rage and pleasure all in one.

[hugh g rection]

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Oh, baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

What is love
Yeah

Oh, I don't know why you're not there
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong
Gimme a sign

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

Oh, I don't know, what can I do
What else can I say, it's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh

What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh
What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more

Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me

I want no other, no other lover
This is your life, our time
When we are together, I need you forever
Is it love

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)

What is love?

[Rum_Runner]

Is that what she says when you have a ten incher if it is I definately want one.:D Thanks Hugh...... LOL

[hugh g rection]

Don't thank me, thank Haadaway.

[Rum_Runner]

Thanks Haadaway


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[EndorphinMachine]

haha when I first read the thread's name I instantly remembered that Hadaway song. pretty cool btw.:cool

[Valk]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Each time I saw this thread title I thought of that song too. I loved Haddaway when I was younger.:cool

[G-Spot19]

Same here! For some reason i remembered the song as being better and less repetitive though. :? Oh well. Maybe it was that video weirding me out :lol:

[Rum_Runner]

You have to figure in the fact that most songs have a shelf life. Minus the greats. You know who they are.:cool