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wern
23rd June 2005, 12:01 PM
This chick I am chatting to and trying to get to meet me, is talking about dick size. And she says that she has slept with two guys who were seven & a half inchs and she says its not even big. And she is 5'4".

The funny thing is that I get this a lot from chicks. They think that big is what we term as huge. Like 8+.

I said to this chick "how do u know ur measuring it right?". she goes - "im using my hands (length from finger tip to wrist) and my hand is seven & a half inchs".

I just don't friggin believe this shit. Is it just my luck that I keep bumping into size queens? Or perhaps seven & a half inchs isn't that big?

Godma
23rd June 2005, 01:03 PM
Send her my way, mate.

:wink:

Spike
23rd June 2005, 06:45 PM
Go for girls with smaller hands.

ArTee63
23rd June 2005, 07:20 PM
Stellar advise. :P

Bobo
23rd June 2005, 08:38 PM
A bit weird that she's talking that way even before You two have had sex... it's like she'd be warning You in advance if You're not big enough. Doesn't sound too clever.

Shane_Bos
23rd June 2005, 08:42 PM
Probably only a rough estimation whatever their size, cant be exact, chances are she thinks they're bigger then they were. Chicks cant measure a dick properly for shit.

ArTee63
23rd June 2005, 08:45 PM
Of course they can't measure one. They don't HAVE one.

Shane_Bos
23rd June 2005, 08:51 PM
Im quite good at estimating bra size and i dont have tits

Bobo
23rd June 2005, 08:53 PM
That "wrist to fingertips" measuring... difficult to believe it's from the top and bone pressed. Anyone is 7,5" when measured below from the nutsack.

Katsz
23rd June 2005, 09:26 PM
She has "man hands" :lol:

wern
23rd June 2005, 09:27 PM
thanks bobo, very comforting what you have said.


i think it is very unwise of her to have said that. And I thought when she was saying it that it wouldn't affect me but it has.

I assumed that she didn't know what she was talking about because she is short and she reckons that 7.5 wasn't that big and she likes to see how far cocks can go inside her. It was a wierd conversation but I wasn't provoking her to give me that information. I was saying rhetorical things like "are you a doctor?".

How do you measure from the nutsack?? :?

wern
23rd June 2005, 09:28 PM
My hands are just below 7 inches and i have small hands. You measure from the finger tip of the middle finger to the wrist. But maybe she does have man hands. yuck.

And Shane, she was adamant she she knew what she was on about. Thats what pisses me off. She is so confident that she knows 7.5 inches is small. Oh but she corrected it to "average", you know, just in case I am 7.5. :x

Where the hell are the normal chicks who wouldn't even bring up the subject (she brought it up).

Bobo
23rd June 2005, 09:32 PM
Just think about it from the girls point of view. It's very unlikely that they would measure it from the top because it's much easier to "hand-measure" from the front (from her point of view) meaning under the shaft. That way she'll get more shaft in her measurements than she would from the top. That also explains why she thinks 7,5" isn't "big" because the guys have propably been about 6" in reality.

wern
23rd June 2005, 09:35 PM
interesting. I have never measured myself from under the shaft. But I was wondering the same thing!!!!


I said to her, theres no way a guy would let you measure (I was assuming she was emasuring correctly, from the top). I said, if a chick ever measured me I'd be too wierded out. She said "they never kjnow because I am playing with it", and I said, "trust me, I'd know".

So logically it makes sense that she was measuring from the bottom of the shaft because thats a normal way for a chick to hold a wang.

I can't believe I didn't ask her if it was from above or below :x :x :x

But I have a feeling that if I now bring up the subject so that I can ask the question of where she was measuring from, I'll get a bad answer - the top :(

Bobo
23rd June 2005, 09:39 PM
Don't give her the options, just ask her how she did it.

Katsz
23rd June 2005, 09:40 PM
You're about 7" now, right? I think that if you get with her, she'll be pleased.

In addition, we haven't mentioned girth at all. If you talk about size and neglect girth, you're missing a very important piece of the discussion.

wern
23rd June 2005, 09:46 PM
katz baby, girth is something i lack so I wouln't be bringing it up. I am still shy of 5" even though I am 80% of my exercises are for girth primarily if not entirely.


I should be on the 7" mark. I haven't measured for over a month and I have been PEing probably twice a week on average for the last two months, and my last measurement then was pretty much 6.9
The conversation ended badly with her, because I was making it out that she shouldn't have said anything. And because I kept trying to prove that she didn't know jack about cocks she retorted with "you are probably tiny"
to which I replied,
"maybe I am, maybe not, but the way you are going you'll never get to find out"
and it went like that until she said she was feeling nauseous and she shouldn't have bought it up and "it doesn't matter anyway", and I said bye.

so I don't think it woul;d be easy to re open the topic because it seems like a pandoras box now

Katsz
23rd June 2005, 09:50 PM
This should provide good PE motivation for you.

wern
23rd June 2005, 09:52 PM
the reason i don't go hard it it is partly because of circumstances (like work and no time to myself etc), and partly because I don't want to increase length until I get 5" girth so I am going overkill on girth and usually end up with blood spots here and there so I have to wait till they are healed. Anyways LIm theory applies. Two INTENSE PE sessions per week with lots of recovery can't be all that bad. Or can they.

Shane_Bos
23rd June 2005, 11:35 PM
Sounds ok to me :D .

My advice to you is forget about the convo, fuck her, and see what she says. If she insults your size then just remind yourself your above average and she was just unlucky that shes had big cocks in the past as now shes expecting one every time. Chances are they wernt all that big in the first place if you ask me. You know what women are like.

If you dont fuck her then you'll never know and move on.

wern
24th June 2005, 12:38 AM
yeh good point. thanks mate. :)

soserious
12th August 2005, 02:36 AM
sounds like a dumb insensitive bitch.

Valk
12th August 2005, 12:01 PM
Stop thinking with your dick and get the hell away from her.
I'm guessing you're not desperate, but she insults you and still you think about fucking her?

wern
12th August 2005, 02:50 PM
As it turns out I stop all contact with her, because it blew out of proportion and I sort of called her a size queen. Looking back I believe I was being insecure (as any normal human is). Though I have no regrets about this chick.

I am definately not deparate to screw. Though I would (and have) go out with a chick just for a fuck or twenty.

Seek&Destroy
12th August 2005, 07:27 PM
wern,

According to the LifeStyles Condoms data only 1 in 33 guys is 7.5". So either she is lucky or slutty, I don't know her so its your call.

She has some big hands for a girl of 5'4".

wern
13th August 2005, 12:38 AM
i told her she has big hands hehe. as bobo said, she was probably meassuring from the underside, so a 6 incher would measure 7.5

Anthrax
13th August 2005, 01:15 AM
It's a good thing you didn't screw her... with those big hands, she probably has a larger cock than you... :shock:

G-Spot19
13th August 2005, 04:58 AM
Seriously. Those ar huge for a woman 5'4". Damn. Is she sure she even measured her hands right? Women seem to be idiots when it comes to measurements. Oh and if they estimate, my God is it ever terrible. Anyways, i agree...sounds like slutty, uncaring, misinformed bitch that dont know nothing about what she is talking about and the only thing i can say about her is she sounds like she would make a good parking garage for a passenger jet. :twisted:

Seek&Destroy
13th August 2005, 02:12 PM
Hanger = parking garage for a passenger jet. :shock: :D

BigBadBear
13th August 2005, 05:26 PM
Do you know what she looked like? You could've started going on about how you hate small boobs\short legs\a flat arse\whatever attribute she has that she might well be a source of insecurity to her and claim that all the girls you'd been with had huge boobs\long legs\a nice juicy arse\whatever. Trust me, that would probably cut deeper on her than this did on you.

I'm all for treating a girl well and being a gentleman, but when girls discriminate based on things like penis size which are widely considered (if not by us) to be genetic and unchangeable then she isn't worth it and you should try and teach her a lesson but in a subtle way.

Anyway, at 7" you're doing damn well for yourself and even if your girth is slightly under 5" that's still pretty much average. Any girl that would consider you 'small' or 'average' at best was a waste of her mothers eggs.

wern
14th August 2005, 12:55 AM
Thanks bear, although it didn't cut me deep at all. The thing that pissed me off is that I'm always hooking up with chicks like this, that reckon they have had big dicks. It's upsetting because its becoming a pattern in general and not a one off. Of course there have been chicks that have been really impressed. One or two.

soserious
14th August 2005, 01:03 AM
thats good- keep on the positive, impressing 2 girls with youre size is more than ive done.
good job dude :cool

ss

G-Spot19
14th August 2005, 04:33 AM
Size queens. No need to worry about them. Just dumb bitches and if they think that those cocks are huge, imagine what they could think your is. :D

BigBadBear
14th August 2005, 12:58 PM
Thanks bear, although it didn't cut me deep at all. The thing that pissed me off is that I'm always hooking up with chicks like this, that reckon they have had big dicks. It's upsetting because its becoming a pattern in general and not a one off. Of course there have been chicks that have been really impressed. One or two.
The truth is that girls don't know shit about penis size really. Half the time that most of them have sex they're too drunk to have a clue what's going on. How are they going to accurately estimate penis size when they can't remember their own name? My girlfriend has told me that her friends have all been with guys who have been 8" or 9", but if girls are to be believed then about 50% of the guys out there are 8"+ which is just a ridiculous assumption.

Maybe it's a case of you looking in the wrong place or for the wrong type of women. This may sound bad, but I honestly believe that the majority of young women nowadays are pretty much whores, they get dressed up as slutty as possible, go out and get drunk and end up in some random guys bed. This is why I feel so lucky to have a lovely girlfriend who is beautiful but at the same time has some respect for herself and nowadays there aren't many around. It all depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a quick shag, then you can probably expect to be judged against the hundreds of other men that the girl has slept with, but if you find a nice girl to have a relationship with then you'll probably find her a lot more accepting of your size, even though you're significantly over average. I think it's a horrible sign of the times that a guy like you could be made to feel inadequate about your size.

wern
14th August 2005, 08:21 PM
Thanks for the kind words bear! I totally agree with you. I don't look for sluts. But most women I know, even as a friend only, have had much more shags than the purported average for a woman. I don't think women are being serious when they tell a man that 7.5inches is small, i think they are actually testing him to see how he reacts. They prefer a man with a good attitude than one with a big dick because relationships are what a woman is looking for, not just a good shag, and besides a good shag for a woman is more emotional than physical. Just yesterday a mates fiance was tleling me how getting good head is exponentially more important than a big dick.

Shane_Bos
14th August 2005, 08:49 PM
Good point Werny, but its still nice to have big dick. Lets face it, its why we're here!

BigBadBear
14th August 2005, 08:53 PM
In my opinion it depends on the type of sex their having as to what is most important. If they're having a one night stand with you and don't see it going any further then things like a big dick and other physical attributes come into play more, but if they think it could become a full blown relationship then things become more emotional and a wider range of your attributes and skills come into consideration.

As for what you said about it being a test, that could be true, but I know that I wouldn't appreciate being tested in that way and would most likely never give the girl a second look ever again if she said that to me as she would immediately sound like a shallow whore in my eyes and therefore wouldn't be worth considering a relationship with. If she wanted to test you, that seems a damn stupid way to do it.

Either way, you've got what you've got and if the girl isn't interested thats her loss, I'm sure she's hardly perfect herself at any rate.

wern
15th August 2005, 01:31 AM
Women test men ALL THE TIME. Ie:
- playing hard to get
- being a brat
- teasing
- being insensitive to you
- being flaky (ie not showing up to dates, or cancelling at the last minute)
Its the way they filter out a good catch from the hordes of men that are hitting on them every day. I know this because I have lots of female friends. Tests are good because they provide you with a cue to show the woman what kind of a guy you are.

Bear, most women are looking for a relationship. There's pretty much 5 exceptions:
1. Experimentation (young women 16-23 who are new to the sex scene)
2. women on the rebound
3. women with a mental condition such as nymphomania, or
4. professionals (porn stars, whores)
5. sluts - a combination of 1 and 3

3, 4 and 5 are likely to have deseases and have terrible personalities
1 is in abundance but you have to have reasonably good game to hook them, unless you go for mingers.
and as for 2, it's very rare to hook up with these because people on the rebound usually hookup with guys they already know.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 11:24 AM
You seem to be an expert wern. Some good clues you have there. Women can be so fucking annoying. That's why I've stopped chasing them. I just go if the catch is absolutely inevitable.

wern
15th August 2005, 11:30 AM
I may not be on the ball in my previous post when it comes to women wanting relationshops all over the world, but I believe I have a pretty accurate assessment for the women in Sydney, Australia.

I wouldn't call myself an expert but I have grown up with women and more than half my friends are females (even though I am a reasonably macho guy). I am usually dating at least one person at a time. I am usually a very modest guy and don't toot my own horn, but atleast 90% of women that I interract with really like me and get along great with me in general. If you ever have any advice you want, just try me out, I'd love to help.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 11:36 AM
Do your female friends actually tell you about their views when it comes to relationships?

I never had many female friends, when it comes to friendship women annoy me. Not that I'm an alpha macho male, but I just don't have the patience when they get irrational.

Shane_Bos
15th August 2005, 11:55 AM
Some women arent that irrational believe it or not, and sometimes, an irrational one can be easily calmed if you have the right attitude. Ive got plenty of female friends that I talk to about sex and relationships. It comes in quite useful.

wern
15th August 2005, 12:13 PM
Zw, my female friends tell me about everything, even their dildos. They flirt with me, and touch and lick me. All of them (at various times). Even friends' girlfriends, fiances and wives.

Women may seem complex, but they are pretty easy to understand - treat them like shit but be funny, flirty and calm and collected (aka "cool") and they will love you. That's pretty much the fundamentals of it as fucked up as it may sound.
Women like that attitude of funny, flirty and calm and collected but they HATE desparation, so thats why you need to treat them bad (ie don't call them often, make fun of their insecurities, act unineterested when they don't expect it). If you come across like you have a great attitude but you don't give a shit about them, they will think you got great game and women love you in general. And they will be attracted to you. And women of all ages and cultures are lkike that, at least in Sydney, the most multicultural place on Earth (or so I read).

Valk
15th August 2005, 12:58 PM
You must be a very handsome fella to get licked by so many women. :cheeky:

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 01:08 PM
Maybe I didn't put it correctly. I do have some female friends, and all of them are absolutely gorgeous, which make most guys think I must be banging them or rather, which isn't the case, and I even notice a tad of jealousness from the blokes. But the girls never open themselves out with things like their private life, sexual preferences and stuff... they'd rather make an effort to keep a more intelectual conversation with me (even if I know they're doing their best but that's not exactly their beach, I'm never ever patronizing). What really annoys me is that thing of silly games and specially when they're vulgar (which unfortunately you find stacks of them here in UK). I just hate vulgarity. I'm absolutely disgusted when a woman next to me starts being vulgar, I feel like kicking their arses and sending them to the fucking moon. I guess that's what I call irrational, being vulgar. All of my female friends can be anything but vulgar, they're actually very sophisticated and discreet. I know there are many different kinds of women out there (I'm a well traveled person and I've seeing a lot), but in UK most women are bloody boring and bossy or vulgar loud cows. I'm not generalizing, don't you guys take me wrong, most of my female friends are british and lucky me when I'm in their company, cause they are GORGEOUS.

Valk
15th August 2005, 01:21 PM
I dont really care if my female friends are gorgeous or not. I'm one of those select view who doesnt think looks are a reflection of the personality.
As long as they're fun to hang out with its fine with me.
Come to think of it, most beautiful women have an attitude as big as Matts dick so I dont want them near me anyway.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 01:29 PM
Hmmm... not really Valk. There are girls and girls, gorgeous or not. I'm sure a dick like Matt's is a plus for most women, but that's not first thing on their agenda (I'm talk for the ones I know). As for looks, well... what can I say... I don't boast the fact that they're gorgeous just to raise my self esteem, they just are gorgeous, that's all. It's ever so nice to have gorgeous women with brains next to you.

Valk
15th August 2005, 01:39 PM
I meant that they have big attitudes, not that they want big dicks.

I think we just have different experiences on this matter. I have undergone so much shit from attractive, cool people in my life, that I just lost my fate in man kind. There are so many people who look done on you, just because you werent born with good looks. I know alot of people who judge a person the minute he/she walks into the room.
If people have the right to treat me like shit because I'm hidious, then I have the right to treat beautiful people like shit because they're beautiful.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 01:53 PM
I understand you so well Valk. I'm not that great looking myself. I also was treated like shit by some brainless, futile, look-is-everything idiots. But I left that behind as you walk passed a pile of shit. But believe me, there are great good looking girls out there, with a great attitude, it's just a question of being in the right place at the right time. Maybe the fact that I have traveled so much in my life increases the chances of coming across such people.

Valk
15th August 2005, 02:09 PM
It doesnt bother me as much as it used to. Although am a bit more rude and blunt to people these days but atleast its better then getting walked over.
Fortunately looks are subjective and am I not attracted at all to women that are called gorgeous by most men. And our interests would match at all, so everybody's happy. They dont have to spend time with an ugly guy and I have to spend time with boring females that like to spend all there free time shopping. Ofcourse I'm over-generalizizing (fooking hate this word!) and there are still good people left on earth.
:P

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 02:20 PM
Of course there are. The odds is always a problem for most people. It's always the bloody "chances are" which can hinder our possibilities. But never forget time Valk. It works against us sometimes but when our time comes, the past becomes just a feeble, faded patch locked up somewhere at the back of our brains and life suddenly takes its turn in our favour. One day, when the sun is shining to you, everything finally came into its right place and you're enjoying life like you should, you'll look back and will say to yourself "zw was right afterall". Give time a chance. :wink:

Valk
15th August 2005, 02:31 PM
I'm sure you are right are Zw, I never doubt your knowledge (*slurp slurp suck nibble slurp :wink:)
I just need to make a big change, take action. I often feel like a dissident where I live. Things that give other people's lives fulfillment (nice car, nice house etc) dont do anything for me.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 02:32 PM
[color=#ffff99]As it turns out I stop all contact with her, because it blew out of proportion and I sort of called her a size queen.

HA! I actually haven't read this thread in its full. I thought you were extremely polite, too polite in fact. You should tell her to go and fuck herself with a baseball bat up her ass in hell. Bitch!

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 02:39 PM
I'm sure you are right are Zw, I never doubt your knowledge (*slurp slurp suck nibble slurp :wink:)
I just need to make a big change, take action. I often feel like a dissident where I live. Things that give other people's lives fulfillment (nice car, nice house etc) dont do anything for me.

What are you nibbling?

Absolutely, it seems that your surroundings is a rather small place for you. Maybe you could be thinking about getting on the move, different places, different people, etc...

Valk
15th August 2005, 02:47 PM
What are you nibbling?

Well, I started with your ear, progressed to your nose and then went further down and... :D :roll:

Yes, I've been thinking of packing my stuff and go for a long time now.
But making the first decision is so damn hard! :x Its not like there is an oppertunity which I can grab. I need to figure out when, where and how I'm gonna exercise my skills.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 02:55 PM
Well, I started with your ear, progressed to your nose and then went further down and... :D :roll:
:shock: :shock: :shock:

Yes, I've been thinking of packing my stuff and go for a long time now.
But making the first decision is so damn hard! :x Its not like there is an oppertunity which I can grab. I need to figure out when, where and how I'm gonna exercise my skills.

Oh yeah! Don't tell me, I know that pretty well. But once you find a opportunity grab it, don't ponder too much otherwise you'll end up staying put. Just keep looking and you'll find few things. But look hard, keep asking people and gather as much info as you can. I shouldn't be telling you this :roll: stupid me, I'm sure you know exactly what you want.

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 03:03 PM
Valk matey, my time is up. Got to go before the bearded woman next to me jumps on me. :shock: :wink:

Catch up with you later.

Valk
15th August 2005, 03:06 PM
It gonna be something with music. Which form(s) I still dont know. And its gonna be something where I'm mostly my own boss. Thats as far as I am now. :roll: I doesnt have to be my full occupation but I want atleast to spend a reasonable amount of time making music.
Maybe I just have to make my own opportunity, its not easy, but better then nothing.

Hmmm...Maybe London is the place for me. I already know two people where I can find a place to crash. :wink:

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 04:05 PM
It gonna be something with music. Which form(s) I still dont know. And its gonna be something where I'm mostly my own boss. Thats as far as I am now. :roll: I doesnt have to be my full occupation but I want atleast to spend a reasonable amount of time making music.
Maybe I just have to make my own opportunity, its not easy, but better then nothing.

Hmmm...Maybe London is the place for me. I already know two people where I can find a place to crash. :wink:

London is a difficult place (too many people trying to find their own space), but I guess that applies to most places nowadays. I'm actually trying to get out of London and live somewhere more quiet and yet be able to find enough opportunities which would suit me. That's my next move and it's a rather difficult one in my case. But of course you can count on me if you eventually decide to make this move and need a place to crash, but that's only in the future (a single room is all I have at the mo, unless you want to share a single bed with me :P ).

The key thing in London in your area is connections, and good ones. I'm affraid I couldn't be much of a help for you since I know very few people in the non-classical music industry. Keep me updated with your decisions but do it by e-mail.

Oh! and yes, of course, in terms of relations London is indeed the place for you. It's a big city with a great variety of people, hence, more opportunities for you to find decent people to hang out with.

Valk
15th August 2005, 04:41 PM
(a single room is all I have at the mo, unless you want to share a single bed with me :P ).

Sounds lovely my dear. :D :lol:

I think I would love to live in a big city although I cant say for sure because I've never lived in one. It just feels right for this part in my life and I'm sure that if I'm your age and lived in London for quite some time, I may feel the same as you do. Sounds indeed like a tough move, since I reckon that all the orchestras are located in moderate to big cities.

You're are very right about the connections. Although I must say I'm not trying to make it in the industry in the sense that I'm trying to get a record deal and become a mega big star. Thats not what I want at all. (not that I have the capabilities to become one anyway)
An interesting time has arrived were getting a record deal isnt the only way to make money as a musician/artists. I'm gonna look if I can do something with that.

Eh, mail you said. :puke:

Valk
15th August 2005, 04:48 PM
Valk matey, my time is up. Got to go before the bearded woman next to me jumps on me. :shock: :wink:

Catch up with you later.

Goodbye buddy, I see you have a hard time saying goodbye. :lol: :wink:

zwmusic
15th August 2005, 05:14 PM
Eh, mail you said. :puke:

Yes darling, it's more private... :P :lol:

Here it goes... another gay twist. :roll: :wink:

I know what you mean, and I'm sure you can find ways forward in London which can suit your needs and capabilities as a musician. All you need is a first step, which is always the hardest one.

wern
15th August 2005, 09:18 PM
Gayness in my threads... what else is new.

Zw, I absolutely hate vulgar women, and I know quite a few. Some of my female friends are gorgeous, some are very average.
Woman looovvvee an alpha male, and part of being an alpha male is being in control. When a woman acts vulgar it is a test. You need to call her out on it, make sure she knows she is acting like a brat. As long as you communicate it in a funny way it will totally change the way she views you. Even if you just want to be friends she will have much more respect for you. See, goergeous women usually act like brats because they are used to being lavished by the world. As soon as someone knocks them off their pedestal they are intrigued. They may have a hissy fit, as that's what has always worked for them in the past, but you just have to call them out on that as well.

ie. HER: some vulgar remark about another woman's shoes
YOU: you're one to talk. where'd you buy yours, walmart?
HER: OH I NEVER, HOW DARE YOU TALK TO ME LIKE THAT
YOU: [leaning back, calm and collected, slightly chuckling] you know, you remind me of my younger sister [smile politely, like an older brother would]

*boooyah* - it will change everything

oh and if they still dont get it, say "hey can't you take a joke? sheesh!!!!"

wern
15th August 2005, 09:21 PM
And Valk, that attitude I emntioned works for all women except really ugly ones because their insecurities are usually so strong that you can really harm them by being mean. But women don't care about looks. I have very average friends who hook up with models. And I am handsome myself (or so I'm told), but I am probably a 6-7.5 out of 10. There are wayyyy better looking men than I who don't hook up.

Valk
15th August 2005, 09:29 PM
Can you hook up a hidious guy up with a model? :P Please please please! :lol:

wern
15th August 2005, 09:46 PM
As cliche as it sounds, chicks don't just go for looks. They definately go for looks, but its not the deciding factor in attraction. If you act in a way that make's a chick believe that you score with chicks regularly or have chicks following you etc, they will create attributes in you that appeal to them (ie they will focus on your positives only, and an attraction will be created).

If you see a hot chick working at a clothing store, you need to imagine how a man who hooks up with models would act. How would he act? Well fiirstly he would have no hesitation in approaching this chick to talk about clothing and then to lead that to something else. Also he would be VERY blasse (totally unaffected emotionally by her looks). And if she said ANYTHING that was even remotely bratty he would call her out on it as he does to his girlfriends daily. If she let on about an insecurity at any point he would poke fun of it in a nonchalant way. And he would close by asking her for her number or email and telling her that she MIGHT be worthy of being a friend.

This communicated to her that he is cool, in control, not desparete etc

Shane_Bos
15th August 2005, 09:52 PM
Thats kindas the way i am. Wow, how cool am i :cool

I never thought my girlfriend would go for me cos i thought she was too pretty and shit but she was a friend of a friend and we all went out once and i just played it cool and asked for her number at the end of it all and she said yes which i was pleasantlt surprised about but inside i was really nervous cos i thought she would say no :mrgreen

zwmusic
16th August 2005, 02:50 PM
Gayness in my threads... what else is new.

:puke:

Zw, I absolutely hate vulgar women, and I know quite a few. Some of my female friends are gorgeous, some are very average.
Woman looovvvee an alpha male, and part of being an alpha male is being in control. When a woman acts vulgar it is a test. You need to call her out on it, make sure she knows she is acting like a brat. As long as you communicate it in a funny way it will totally change the way she views you. Even if you just want to be friends she will have much more respect for you. See, goergeous women usually act like brats because they are used to being lavished by the world. As soon as someone knocks them off their pedestal they are intrigued. They may have a hissy fit, as that's what has always worked for them in the past, but you just have to call them out on that as well.

They ARE annoying when they're vulgar, aren't they?

I actually did knock few of them down their pedestal but it doesn't always work to your "advantage" as it were, but it certainly awakes their curiosity.

ie. HER: some vulgar remark about another woman's shoes
YOU: you're one to talk. where'd you buy yours, walmart?
HER: OH I NEVER, HOW DARE YOU TALK TO ME LIKE THAT
YOU: [leaning back, calm and collected, slightly chuckling] you know, you remind me of my younger sister [smile politely, like an older brother would]

*boooyah* - it will change everything

oh and if they still dont get it, say "hey can't you take a joke? sheesh!!!!"

It's possible... but I think this example would work more in Australia than here in UK. For the experiences I had, I found Australian women much more laid back and easy to handle than the british. They are fucking arrogant.

wern
16th August 2005, 09:28 PM
Yeh maybe. I do know that some women are terrible in Australia, but I only know a few and compared to the UK they could be laid back, as I don't know any vulgar brits

zwmusic
17th August 2005, 02:18 PM
as I don't know any vulgar brits

I know loads of them but I just keep my distance. The ones I'm closer with are very nice and sophisticated.

Valk
17th August 2005, 04:55 PM
Whats your email adress?

zwmusic
17th August 2005, 05:07 PM
zwmusic@ibest.com.br

Actually, are going to send that pic of your eyes?

Valk
17th August 2005, 05:13 PM
Eh, I'm not really comfortable with that, I hope you dont mind.

Besides, I discovered that its more a combination of my facial features then my eyes alone. :?

zwmusic
17th August 2005, 05:15 PM
:( You don't trust me.

Valk
17th August 2005, 05:33 PM
Its not that I dont trust you, its just that I dont like to be confronted with those things.

zwmusic
17th August 2005, 05:37 PM
J/K. :wink:

Write to me whenever you want to. :)

Valk
17th August 2005, 05:46 PM
Which is now! :D

zwmusic
17th August 2005, 05:53 PM
OK. I may not be able to reply promptly cause my time is almost up and I don't think I'll have much time from tomorrow on to log in.

Valk
17th August 2005, 05:57 PM
Its not urgent at all, so take your time.

soserious
17th August 2005, 10:14 PM
well well well, i just shaved my head.
i have used clippers on it with the closest setting , or rather no add-ons since a year or more, but i just shaved my head with razors.
god i hate it.
i hate it as it grows now, its so bald its stupid.
hmm, it took about an hour to shave.

im really thinking about a head tatoo again, maybe a skull- big, or some tribal art or some words.

wern
18th August 2005, 12:28 AM
SS I strongly recommend that you not get a tattoo on your head. If you feel like an outsider now, once you put a tattoo there, there's no going back into coming across as a regular Joe.

G-Spot19
18th August 2005, 08:09 AM
Yeah i would suggest you forget that idea. It may look awesome but most people look down on stuff like that. I know a guy who cant hardly find a job because the way he dresses.