Newbie!

[Justafew]

Yo!!

So I'm actually not 100% new to this site, I was on it about a year ago, and just didn't get into PE like I wanted to. I had so much going on that I just couldn't focus on it. But!! now I want to forget about all of that and start over fresh. I'll start off by telling you guys a bit about myself I suppose. *Ahem* I am an avid rock climber, I have a girlfriend who, surprisingly enough to me, is 100% find with my size :shrugs:, and I am a guy who absolutely despises failure. And if you haven't guessed it, my whole life I have thought in my head that I am a failure when it comes to my manhood. I am a skinny guy, so I can't use weight as an excuse, but I'm only 5.25 inches in length, and 4 inches in girth non bone pressed. I have to say that I am a little nervous putting up my actually sizes up, because only one other person knows it, and that's my girlfriend. I remember the first time I had a condom in my possession (this was before I have ever had any kind of sexual contact, and before I knew that I was small). Well, my friend gave me these, and he said I'll need them eventually. I took one out just because I wanted to learn how to put them on, so I didn't look like a complete fool the first time. Well, at the time I did not know how to "apply" them, so I just unraveled it. If you know the size of a regular sized condom, it's about 7 inches long and tight enough to fit 5 inches in girth snugly. Heh, as soon as I saw that thing my heart split in half, and I know this isn't manly, but I seriously wanted to cry. Ever since then my confidence has been absolutely nothing. Because of my size, I'm actually still a virgin. I have been dating the same girl for over 2 years now, and I'm not a virgin because of my choice (it actually is, but she doesn't know lol), it's hers. She wants to wait till she's 18. She just turned 17 so I have 1 year to get up to par. I actually want to get into the best shape of my life in this 1 year as well. So, I'm looking at this year as my journey to confidence. Have yet to give my journey a good name, but that works for now. I have noticed a non-PE chat section of the forum as well, so maybe all of us can make getting into really good shape a journey together as well :D. I simply just can't wait to get to know everyone, and have someone by my side through this. My goal is 6.5 inches in length, and 5.25 inches in girth. My girlfriend in a virgin as well, and I know the first time will be painfull for her. But, after that I'd love to be the best sex she ever has (that is if she leaves me someday lol). And I know 6.5 inches in length isn't huge, but I'm concerned that if I get much bigger I won't be able to put all of my little soldier in. My girlfriend is rather short and skinny. and with my fingers I can reach the back of her..ya'know lol. So, any advice on sex would be awesome as well, because I'm sure some of you have tons of it!

Like I said though, I can't wait to get to know everyone, and have some friends in my journey to my confidence.

Viva La Vida!

[The_Scientist]

Congrats on deciding to do something about it.

Also, it's sort of a secret that everyone finds out on their own, but I figured that since I like you especially for some reason I would tell you now.

There are always going to be things that get in your way and things that go on, the best thing that you can do it to plan ahead. I like to make a schedule in excel at the beginning of every week, that goes from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep everyday for the week. I put in everything that I need to do, homework, eat, shower, PE, workout whatever. That's the only way that I could stay consistent (just don't forget to alot time for just relaxing or you'll go crazy one day and end up watching a Star Wars marathon with a pint of Ben and Jerry's), also I wake up ass early and run and do PE so that nothing ever gets in the way of it.

Also, don't worry about your size now, because if you do everything we say you won't be that size for long. Also, don't be afraid to experiment or listen to your body to add or subtract exercises according to how you feel, that's something that alot of new people aren't prepared for.

Because I like you for some reason more than most of the newbies here (maybe because what you are doing is somewhat similar to what I am doing now, or maybe because I'm in a good mood because I just found out that classes were cancelled), I'm going to offer you an extra special deal.

Create a diary in the diaries section (these are great for motivation) and post in it everyday, even on your off days post what you did that day to make yourself better if it's running, or lifting, or reading about PE theory, or doing all of your homework early, or reading up on lovemaking skills, and I'll post in it everyday (I do this anyway, but I'll take an extra special interest in yours). And I'll start posting in my diary again and you can come over and check out what I'm doing. Like one of those lame walking clubs that old women have to lose weight, only since we're not old women and are goals are much different (basically making ourselves the most badass version of ourselves that we can be) I'm ok with it.

Sorry that was so long. Get to the diaries and start posting what you're going to do to make yourself better. Post your PE routine, and what you plan on doing to workout.

Keep consistent.

[Justafew]

You basically have just became that reason that I'm going to love this forum. I've posted my diary before you posted, so I didn't put anything in about my workouts. It's great that I have somebody with the same goals as me, it makes me want to keep up with you. You can be one of my many mentors that I'm sure I'm going to have on this site. And like you say Fuck Fear and Fuck Failure. Something that I've been trying to do for years, and maybe you can help me do it. :D

Viva La Vida

[PepeLePew]

http://www.deephousepage.com/smilies/welcome.gif http://www.abestweb.com/smilies/newb.gif !!! :mrgreen

I like you already as well. I think you are going to do very well and exceed
your goals. We will be here to help push you/motivate you and help you
stay consistent. It's all about consistency baby. I'll be all up in your diary
as well.

And don't believe the first time you have sex with your girl is going to hurt
her. If you perform great foreplay ahead of time...loosen her up with oral
and fingering her...getting her really going that his vagina walls secrete
extra lubrication getting her fully aroused then when you do stick it in for
the first time it will really not hurt her much at all during. Maybe after she
may be a little sore, but it always hurting a virgin is an overrated tale...most
guys just don't know how to setup a girl right to be ready for it.

[MrWeather]

Welcome to the CC comunity! I too am noobish to the endevors of NPE but am already reaping the benefits, most enjoyably the noticable increase in EQ. I too have a girl friend, beleive it or not she lives with me with no knowledge of my PEing, she always said I was big, god bless her, but lately she seems to enjoy sex more, she like youre girlfriend is not that big either but seems to like my new increase in size (though we have sex quite a bit so she hasnt noticed the slow increase).

If you want to be in the best shape of your life, why not find a solid lifting routine and stop by the bodybuilding section. Lifting is sort of a hobby for me and im always willing to give my 2 Cents on the topic.

Good luck!

[Justafew]

My first day here and already so much support. Sadly I work 16 hour shifts during the weekends so I won't be able to post Saturdays and Sundays, but I'm going to make sure I don't let you guys down! Thanks Pepe for the advice, and I'll make sure that I give her a good play before we go for it. And thanks Weather for the size advice. My girlfriend knows I'm going to do PE and she's happy for me. Maybe when I hit my goal we'll try it and if I'm too big then I'll stop doing PE or just focus on girth, and if I could get bigger then BRING IT ON!!! You guys are going to teach me so much, and I'm so excited for it. I feel like I have to prove myself to you guys now, and I WILL! It may take 1 or 2 years but I'll have a big penis someday and I'm sure that it will be because you guys lead me to it. We're in this together, but for now I'm your guys' student so teach me wise ones. :mrgreen

[w3]

Left a lil something on your diary there.
And once again, welcome to CC! :cheeky:
Sex advice.. nah.. not right now, gotta hit the hay!
One simple thing I can tell you;
Listen to her. :wink:

[G-Spot19]

Wow. This is beautiful. ill get to that in a minute. First, GREAT INTRO! I LOVED IT! I would like to say welcome to the boards and that I wish you the best of luck with your PE and life! I am glad to see you are loving here and we will do all we can to make sure that ensues. YOu will find many guys willing to offer tips and help you with, not only PE, but life problems as well. You will find a much different place than you visited last year and i find that a good thing in some ways. As you see, these guys are great and are the heart and soul of this place. Looks like you could be a part of that as well. Also, take MrWeather's advice. I dunno if you do bodybuilding, but you should. YOu will find it something we preach around here. As for the sex advice, we got plenty but none better than what W3 gave you. Listen to her. Talk to her. Since she is a virgin, its a time of experimentation for both of you to find what you like and what you dont. So go into it open to things working, but also be willing to ask and adjust when things dont. Head on over to the LOVE CORNER in the Rules and Regulation section for some of the tips that have been shared over the years!

[The_Scientist]

Yeah, I love this place and I'm not the only one with the same goals as you, basically everyone here has those goals CC is one of the best places in the world as far as I'm concerned, and there's nothing but love for the most part. I'm going to go check out your diary. :hug: