The bitch did it again

[w3]

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[Codzilla]

Mate that is a really sad story. Im so sorry to hear that has happened to you. I am glad you have seen the "light" now, even though it hurts... it will make you a stronger person in the end. Nothing heals your wounds better than the passage of time. Are you still going to remain friends with her? Or will that be too painful?

Its sad man, i see you as such a funny and fun loving guy and it really does upset me to see you write this post. You're in my thoughts my friend.

[w3]

Thank you Cod for your kind words. Much appreciated..

I will remain friends, she will need me later in life. She will need someone to still show her the way, she is just too blind to it all.
I will first gather the remains of my broken heart, and glue them back together. Then when I'm back as a whole, when I can carry my own weight, I can support some of hers.
Right now my own weight seems to be too much as it is..

But I do have some good news.
I'VE GAINED!
+1cm!!:mrgreen:mrgreen:mrgreen

[metallicarocks05]

Fuck them hoes dog.

[w3]

metallica,
That's what I used to think for a long time.
But then she came in, tore down the walls I surrounded myself with and won me over..
Wicked.. But I guess the walls will be back up shortly, and these ones will be even thicker and higher. :twisted:

[Codzilla]

The walls or your penis?

[Rekal]

you can't change people and you don't owe her or anyone anything man. you look out for number one just like she's been doing. imagine how many other dudes she has toyed with, bringing them to feel all this same shit.

[w3]

dyhw4yhgrsahar

[G-Spot19]

Wow. That is a sad story. I hate to hear it, but I am impressed by how you handled it and how you are dealing with it. TO be honest, I would say Fuck Her. But it aint always that simple, I know. I amazed you didnt kill any one though :lol: I would have deffinately thought about it. A good lesson for you and it seems obvious she is a slut, no offense. Girls like that dont deserve sympathy or repect. They dont care about guys or they wouldn't do what they do.

[Rekal]

yea it's amazing how unrelenting daddy issues can be =P
no offense but this sounds like the kind of girl who was molested quite a bit a kid. i just say that because i've known a handful myself.

[zwmusic]

w3, you're 20. You'll only see beyond all that when you cross other bridges in your life. I've been through situations in the past which made me think I wouldn't ever be able to recover and rebuild myself from the rubble. Time is the only healing medicine in those cases... as long as you don't keep dwelling on the negative sides of it. But don't let the positive things deceive you in the future also.

[JaredK]

i never understand how people cheat....while they're doing it they have to consistently think i want to do this to my relationship to my partner in crime, and if they never even think of you its time to say buh-bye and never look back if she ever changes enough she will find you

[w3]

6w35wyyhashasr

[Wargasim]

Thats a sad story dude.

Best thing is to forget about here and move on, either though it might be hard as hell.

There are plenty more fish in the sea, and some of them are not even drunks/nutters.

Plus you still young with a big dick. The world is your pussy mate :)

War

[G-Spot19]

Hey War! What up. Nice advice too. You raise a good point w3. To be honest, i doubt i could turn that down either. But thats an extreme case. Some girls or guys will cheat when they see their bf or gf whenever they want. I know a girl who got engaged and fucked another dude on the same day. I would never do that shit

[JaredK]

im sure you TORE up her arrangements up real nice:twisted::twisted::twisted:

[wern]

w3, that sucks. Don't try to expect too much from women. Take what you an from a relationship, but expect it not to last. That way, at the very worst, you won't be surprised, and at best you will receive more than you had hoped for :wink:

[G-Spot19]

im sure you TORE up her arrangements up real nice:twisted::twisted::twisted:

See, this situation proves how stupid we can be when it comes to "LOVE" or whatever. He was destroyed over it and a couple days later, took her back :shock:
Still engaged

[Valk]

w3, that sucks. Don't try to expect too much from women. Take what you an from a relationship, but expect it not to last. That way, at the very worst, you won't be surprised, and at best you will receive more than you had hoped for :wink:

Indeed, I never understand when people say: "I wasted all this time with this girl/guy" when a relationship ends on a bad note. They always want a relationship with a "future" instead of just enjoying the now.

[wern]

Vlak, they are delluded, in thinking that relationships have a future :roll:

[G-Spot19]

I agree. I used to think that. Maybe someday I will again. For now, i don't believe in relationships. Too much bullshit out there.

[wern]

Even random hookups are getting less attractive if you look at STD/STI infection rates, in particular genital warts.

[Codzilla]

Relationships are the only thing that makes me happy to be honest. I've never been one who likes one nighters, even when i was fucking this girl during my "university" i started to get emotionally attached to her and wanted more, even though i knew she was way too immature for a relationship, she had a sweet pussy though. I guess if you're happy in a relationship it means only one thing... you're setting up for a broken heart... or not.

[w3]

riddydydydykdy

[zwmusic]

Since the topic here is relationship, I can only speak from my own experience. All of my relationships broke for e reason which, when I look back now, made sense. they just had to end like the way they did - no better or no worse. The only thing we can take from a broken relationship is to know ourselves a little better, not the past for future reference, not how to choose your next one, nothing like that. Only to know ourselves. We can only make a choice when we know ourselves, because most of the time we can't see beyond our choices, and we take a pick. Sometimes it is better to take a pick than to stay lonely, right? Wrong. Trouble with most of us is to have to deal with ourselves, every fucking day, every moment we change because we can't see beyond that day, and because we don't know where this or that choice will take us. What we do then? We take a pick. Probabilities are that the pick will end up in disaster, but if it does, we can at least learn a bit more about ourselves.

[w3]

zw wise words..
You are right about that part.
I still seem to have learned a lot about women, and human beings in general when I've been in a relationship.
I've come out more wise than I was before.
But maybe that is just because I'm more in tune with myself after a lot of pain, maybe I'm more rational and see things more far and wide?

I love all the experience I can get, good or bad.
That which doesn't kill, only makes you stronger.

[wern]

The only thing we can take from a broken relationship is to know ourselves a little better

Sometimes it is better to take a pick than to stay lonely, right? Wrong.
Amen.

It seems that the nature of society today is that, mostly, the relationships that work long term are ones in which there is no concept of sexual tension. ie the frienship between two hetero males ot two hetero females. Sex/sexual tension causes needyness, jealousy and possesiveness. All manifesting themselves subtely. All ruinous to relationships.

[JaredK]

a very attractive slut told me once that sex ruins everything

[K-man]

I can relate to that statement. If it wasnt for sex (or lack thereof) my current relationship would be perfect. Problem is that men and women view sex in totally different ways (generally speaking), not to mention the fundamental biological differences. Its almost a catch 22 situation. In my experience its the case that men need sex to truly feel loved (to really feel a bond with their partner), whereas women need to feel loved before they'll even entertain the idea of sex. How to go about making a woman feel loved varies so much between different women that its almost always an uphill struggle for us men.

I'm starting to sound bitter now so I'll stop!! :lol:

[zwmusic]

If you're bitter towards women, wern can offer you a nice sock. :lol:

[wern]

Nah I don't have any spares at the moment.