BANNED FROM A STRIP CLUB!!!!

[TheGreatDivider1]

O.K. I'm not MR. Bed-Time-Story here and I don't have whole lot of time to waste here typing. So here's what happened, a couple of weeks ago I and a buddy of mine had sex with a stripper we had just met, which would have been all good and fine if I could have just stayed tight lipped about the whole thing. Although, as it so happened I told 1 friend and he told 1 friend and so on and so on. Now last week I went to the strip club for the first time and after spending some cashd on a few girls, I found I told myself I was going to get a # from. So i worked my charm on her for a few dances, until i told her "I'll buy a dance from you if you talk to me for a while", at which point she started asking questions about me, I turned the frame around and asked about her. When she told me that her friend was comming to her up I took up her offer on a dance, but during I acted uninterested saying that "I'm glad you're having fun because I just can't have sex with or get a lap dance from some1 I dont have trust or feel comfortable with..." and then I told her about my experience with one of the other girls, "how i just couldn't kiss her..." and she did what I should have expected from all women, that is she told 1 and so on and so on. The next time I showed up with a copied cd I gave to the DJ and within 15 minutes got called over by the bouncer/owner who asked me if I had slept with one of his girls, and told me how it hurt his clubs reputation. I never did get a callback and I hear rumors that all the girls a pissed. I feel I have to do something to make it up to them almost like MY NAME IS EARL , I feel that this is one thing I have to take care of before scratching it off my, I made a woman feel like a slut. I just feel horrible about this whole thing and was planning on writing a heart felt letter of apology to the girls but what should I do?
I realize that most peoples steriotype of a stripper is a crazy,cocaine,crayzed whore; but I actually see the inner vulnerability in these girls and feel like I seriouly degrated all of them. I don't expect to ever be allowed into the club again, all I want is to know that they understand how bad I feel about this whole situation.

[Rum_Runner]

Damn I would frequent a different club all together. You will find it hard for someone in that situation excepting your apology. Thats just the cold hard truth. Best of luck my friend.

[Steve Madden]

My Lord, the bullshit is even cropping up in the stripclubs now. I'll never understand why those girls get indignant all of a sudden over shit like this; their job is bouncing their titties in mens' faces.

[doug]

Haha, I couldn't agree more, Steve Hasselhoff. :cheeky: :mrgreen

I can't believe that a girl who dances naked and does lapdances all night long can be offended because someone thinks or makes her feel that she is a slut!!

She isn't one of those scout girls who sell cookies at your door!!

For God's sake ,it was funny to read thegreatdivider's post.I can't believe that a man with such a dick can be such...a dick? haha no, joke, I can't believe he can be so sensitive about a stripper.

I think he is Richard Gere in disguise...:cheeky:

[JaredK]

they might hang on the notion that they are still decent because they only dance and when someone tells them the "truth" they get bent out of shape.

[zwmusic]

My sentiments for these kind of women is utter repulse. The only thing I have for them is a big pile of shit. WTF does she think she is? Mother Teresa of cocaine alley? I'm sorry if you feel like having to apologize to a fucking slut who used a wanker to make you feel like you degraded the reputation of such an honorable place, where the only thing they have in mind is the well being of helpless children and the injustices in society. Give me a fucking break.

[doug]

Lol @ zwmusic.

I know no man who has respect for strippers :P

[metallicarocks05]

Dude, don't even think about writing a letter of apology. Next time, tell the bitch she's doing anal to mouth and gape, or she ain't getting none. Nuff said:wink: .

[doug]

Hehe, ass to mouth, totally hot :cheeky: :D :D :cool :cool

[Bootyhound]

You didn't say anything wrong dude you just flirted and made her earn her money fucking whore. You where willing to spend good money and was a loyal patron and that is the thanks you get.

Shit I used to go to the strip clubs and bitches would be sitting on my lap all night, and I was getting some raw table dances. I also spent money and was like you lots of flaterry and sexual inuendos. For christ sakes the bitch probably takes it up the ass. Fucke her, I'm sick of it...:twisted:

[G-Spot19]

Let me tell you my motto:
Treat a girl like a girl, a slut like a slut, and a bitch like a bitch.

Most of these girls are sluts and no need to feel bad for treating them as such. Fuck it dude. You got no reason to feel bad. You did nothing wrong.

[Zoran]

^^^^ Cannot agree more!!!