View Full Version : What to do after to do after her first orgasm....
JaredK
14th March 2008, 03:51 AM
First, does it matter what you did to make her orgasm (fingering,giving head, random sex postions. Does it pay off to do whatever you were doing with more zeal (sense of purpose:shock::cool). Similarly does it pay off to switch from giving head to like a modified spread eagle but you could agrue "if it aint broke don't fix it."
Steve Madden
14th March 2008, 04:04 AM
It's an issue of what's working really. Some people say to avoid the clitoris after she comes, due to heightened sensitivity, but the thing is if she's hot and bothered and doesn't resist what you're doing, I wouldn't stop just because she came. There might be a lot more where that first one came from, and there's no harm in seeing what else you can get out of her.
Eating a girl out should be a new experience every time, so it's not really a good idea in my book to plan out when to switch it up or whatever. You have to go with the flow...she might be done for a while after her first or she might push you into her and keep you busy all afternoon. Just be listening to the signals, don't be afraid to do that comes natural, and keep the same motion going once she's coming. It's a common mistake to start licking/sucking harder or change the rhythm once a girl shows signs of coming, but I think this is a bad idea. I'm not saying to be a robot, but don't up the amp just because she's about to orgasm. Sometimes what got her there is the best thing to finish the job.
A little teasing goes a long way if you're not sure what to do after she's come. Kiss lightly around the inner thigh and pubic region, just glancing the lips ever so slightly now and then. Hopefully she'll respond and want some more. it's a good way I find to feel out the situation to see if she's satisfied for the time being or would enjoy a bit more, and it's less overt than just continuing to lick away or asking right out "What's next?".
JaredK
14th March 2008, 04:59 AM
very nice post, i had the idea that maybe if you start getting deeper/harder and she doesn't seem to mind, you could start kissing her and her neck, possibly ask if it feels good, slowly go faster for a bit and then ask her if she's ready and start putting a little more into it, i think if you don't punk out that could be extremely erotic.
G-Spot19
14th March 2008, 05:47 AM
Best thing to do, ask her. You would be suprised how willing women can be to tell you what they want. You dont say "what do you want me to do now." You say something like, "You want me to lick that little pussy faster, huh?" Something like that. You will usually get a good breathing deep "YEah" from her if you got her worked up. As for the thing about the clit after orgasm, some women dont even like it touched before orgasm. Find out what she likes.
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