who here is still a virgin

[greddy]

well im 21 and never got any, anyone else? if so then whats the reason

[Rum_Runner]

I am a virgin of many things. Sex not one of them.
Greddy your time will come.:wink:

[ownd]

greddy id put down 1,000 dollars that if you didnt want to be a virgin you wouldnt have been. Im sure you shy away from it because of your insecurities. I would just forget about it and do the dam thing already

[K-man]

Much easier said than done, Ownd. Insecurities can run really deep and so do the thoughts that feed them. While I essentially agree with your point of view, its not a simple as just getting it done when it comes to sex. So many factors affect whether or not a sexual encounter is a pleasant experience, and half of them are beyond your control. Its not too hard to understand that it can be somewhat overwhelming. Is it?

[Steve Madden]

On a serious note, I really admire the atmosphere of support that exists around here. It's nice that people can voice legitimate concerns or issues thay've got on their mind and count on constructive, thoughtful responses.

Greddy, I wouldn't worry about it either. If it is you, it's likely a psychological issue that can be altered over time (it may not be easy to change fundamental outlooks or perspectives, but if you will it, eventually it will happen). My advice would be to step back, observe objectively, and then go from there. Best of luck.

[ownd]

i understand your insecurities, becaues the truth is i have the same exact ones man. Let me tell you that i have only slept with about 3 girls in my life, ive gotten a lot of blow jobs and what not but not sex. Now not to tute my horn but i could have slept with about 5 times that many at least mabie 10 but i am to much of a fucking pussy because im insecure of my flacid, and erect penis length even girth. I think i have reverse anorexia in the dick area because although im not big what so ever mabie even below average but i feel like its tiny and i dont feel confident, so i have passed up so many oppurtunites its not even funny. The only times i did is beacuse i manned the fuck up and went ahead and did it, and the girls guess what they didnt say a dam thing it was not a problem! but do understand everything your going through becasue i am still like that. Its been a while since ive slept with a girl because my insecurties.

[K-man]

i understand your insecurities, because the truth is i have the same exact ones man.

Just so there's no confusion, my comments were more observation than relative to me personally. I popped my cherry just after I turned 19 (hell, I had two kids by the time I was greddy's age). I just remember, quite vividly, the sense of terror I felt throughout my teenage years. I was a very late bloomer and I went to a boarding school. You can imagine the situation, I'm sure. Word gets around pretty quick if you're different. It wasnt until I left school (and moved countries) that I could get out of that negative mindset and start to develop a more reasonable self image.

Fortunately, when I moved, I hooked up with a girl that I knew from years back (in Germany, when we were like 10) and we became good friends, which ultimately led to my first sexual relationship. Turns out that, though I was late starting, once I caught up I was ok.

Those jibes through my school years did some real lasting damage though and in truth they are probably the reason I found this site in the first place (so its not all bad :wink:).

As men, most of us are prone to bouts of insecurity regarding our size. Truth is that most women dont care too much whats between your legs. They are much more focused on what kind of man you are and how you treat them. If you're a decent guy who gives them some respect then the size of your dick becomes very much a secondary thought.

[ownd]

Thats tru Kman but we always want to be the biggest the girl has had, or at least not have her wanting more in her head. Btw greddy have you been dedicated to pE? i couldnt find your diary or any progress info.

[The Assman]

wow thats really cool to admit that, makes me feel a lot better, shit my first time was with my ex girlfriend in high school i was 15, when your 15 and a popular kid in your grade...you have an ego lol...guess what when it came down to it, i couldn't get it up...pretty bad huh? gets worse she told all her friends lol awesome year that was. i was just nervous, size, the whole idea of sex, wtv, blood got to my head, and there was noce left for my other head if you know wat i mean. Had to go to the doctor and i got VIAGRA:lol: to help me get through it...today i haven't got anything to complain. I have an awesome girlfriend which it did happen once, the first time, cuz i was nervous again lol, i dont wanna sound cocky but i think i didn`t get hard cuz i was nervous, becuz i struck gold with this one, hottest one in the school i found lol...now its all good....THANK GOD!:cool

[Steve Madden]

It's just like Al Pachino says in the Devil's Advocate, about the girl looking over at him, at this little guy, that just fucked her seven ways from Sunday. Hoowahh!

[K-man]

Thats tru Kman but we always want to be the biggest the girl has had, or at least not have her wanting more in her head.

No arguments there mate. Just trying to get the idea accross that our size is more important to us than it is to them, in real terms.

[Isis]

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I had only been with one girl up until I started stripping. Was a bit of a whore after for several months after I started that job...like OwnD though, I'd usually shy away from sex because of the associated risks. I fooled around with 10-11 girls in like a 6-7 months span...could have easily been 2-3 times that. Ya, you're using protection, and all that, but when you're seeing 3-4 girls at once, and theres' turnover in there as well, you wanna cover your ass.

I get kinda insecure about doing full monty shows cuz I'm only average and girls expect strippers to have big cacks. I'm just glad that I'm only 5'8", cuz otherwise it would suck to be like 6'3" w/ an average size cack when you gotta whip it out!

Let me say I'm a pretty horny dude...I need it like 3 times a day...but I had erection issues with my current girl when we first started dating. This girl is a model...and needless to say quite attractive...Today she calls me voracious, and loves how I can't keep my hands off of her, but at the start because of how cold and distant she was to me (she had some pretty serious emotional baggage) it messed me up emotionally, and that really affected my performance. She's my first gf. I've never had issues gettin hard with women except with her. I'm just glad that we have an amazing relationship today, and it was worth going through those hard (no pun intended :mrgreen ) times for...It was definitely really embarassing having erectile issues tho... :puke:
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[ownd]

Isis do you have a large flacid size? just wondering because all the strippers i see have a huge flacid size and is it true they all pump before going out

[The Assman]

Yeh...i'd like to know this also. I might buy a pump...just for fun really lol

[TD]

Threads like these make CC what it is.

No Ego in this place

[K-man]

Thanks for the compliment. High praise indeed from a man who has made just 2 other posts in over 2 years of membership.

[TD]

Thanks for the compliment. High praise indeed from a man who has made just 2 other posts in over 2 years of membership.


:lol: Dont worry i'll post more from now on