A real problem here folks :(

[Mad_Dog]

Hey guys Im havin a bit of a problem here. I jelq occasionally but I dont have a programme or anything yet. The problem is that my pc muscle feels kinda tensed all the time. Just these past few days I have been getting little spasms in it all the time. This is really worrying me and worst of all its making me ejaculate much much faster than I used to. I naturally have a very high sex drive and used to have sex many times a day if I could. Now that Im single I masturbate quite a lot especially when Im hungover. But now im getting a bit concerned and will do pretty much anything to sort this out.

So does anyone know what I should do? Should I jelq, not jelq or masturbate at all? See a doctor? Im only 21 and in pretty good shape too so this shouldnt be happening yet.

Any help is very welcome!

[SusurrusK]

Hey guys Im havin a bit of a problem here. I jelq occasionally but I dont have a programme or anything yet. The problem is that my pc muscle feels kinda tensed all the time. Just these past few days I have been getting little spasms in it all the time. This is really worrying me and worst of all its making me ejaculate much much faster than I used to. I naturally have a very high sex drive and used to have sex many times a day if I could. Now that Im single I masturbate quite a lot especially when Im hungover. But now im getting a bit concerned and will do pretty much anything to sort this out.

So does anyone know what I should do? Should I jelq, not jelq or masturbate at all? See a doctor? Im only 21 and in pretty good shape too so this shouldnt be happening yet.

Any help is very welcome!

As far as I know, spasms are simply a sign of muscle growth. I get them all the time after using any muscle group, incuding my PC muscle. I'm not a veteran here or anything but Im more or less certain it's nothing to worry about. If you're doing kegels I suggest you lay off them for a few days until it stops, but it will go away in time.

[Baseballer8]

Your PC is sore because it is one of the first times you have really worked it out hard so it has some lactic acid in it. Just relax everything is fine and keep on PEing as things will work themselves out.

[Mad_Dog]

To be honest guys I dont think this will go away by itself. I noticed once I was taking a piss somewhere and someone was coming so I had to stop the flow. I did the hardest kegel of my life and it stopped. Next time I was having sex I felt like I was gonna come as soon as I put it in the pussy. But I carried on anyway thinking I just had a cold or somthing. But everytime since then it has gotten worse and now I just dont know what to do. Im a really happy kinda guy but this is gettin me depressed. I dont go out looking for girls any more cos I wanna get this sorted first.
I think the problem may the "overkegel" I havent been kegeling since then but it still isnt getting better. So what can I do?

[billy1964]

I haven,t heard of over kegeling before. I kegel all the time and don,t have any spasms of any kind. I would probably keep on kegeling to stregthen the pc muscle. like baseballer said it may be spasms. remain positive.:cheeky:

[SusurrusK]

To be honest guys I dont think this will go away by itself. I noticed once I was taking a piss somewhere and someone was coming so I had to stop the flow. I did the hardest kegel of my life and it stopped. Next time I was having sex I felt like I was gonna come as soon as I put it in the pussy. But I carried on anyway thinking I just had a cold or somthing. But everytime since then it has gotten worse and now I just dont know what to do. Im a really happy kinda guy but this is gettin me depressed. I dont go out looking for girls any more cos I wanna get this sorted first.
I think the problem may the "overkegel" I havent been kegeling since then but it still isnt getting better. So what can I do?

First of all, the PC Muscle has nothing to do with how fast you feel the need to cum. All it can help with is giving you more control on wether you cum or not, by being able to hold it back when you get to 'the point of no return', much like you did when you were taking a piss.

I've went through many stages in my sex life where I've been in a girl for a couple minutes and then been like 'uh oh...' feeling the little guys rushing up like it's a damn race, but it had nothing to do with my PC. It's probably just a change that's taking place in your body, I really wouldn't worry about it as anxiety and obsessing over it really isn't going to help it at all trust me. Next time you have sex, forget about it, make sure the two of you are totally relaxed beforehand (I find going down on her helps) and you should be fine.

If you really feel the need to though, seek out a doctor for professional advice. To be honest though, he'll probably just recommend some rest. Best of luck whatever you do! :wink:

[Michael]

I naturally have a very high sex drive and used to have sex many times a day if I could. Now that Im single I masturbate quite a lot especially when Im hungover. Any help is very welcome!

Nothing like a handjob to take your mind off a hangover.:twisted:

High sex drive means that even if you shoot too soon, you'll be back up again soon enough. Chances are the second time will last longer and so on...

[Mad_Dog]

Yeah its true that as soon as I come I'm ready to go pretty much straight away, especially if the girl is hot but second time can be really short so that doesnt help.

I know I seem very anxious but Im very laid back and I dont think thats the problem, cos I find Im ready to come fast even when Im on my own. I can control myself pretty well and have always been able to so I can make it last longer than it would but its nowhere near what I was capable of. The bad thing is that I know a lot of tricks and use them all and still it doesnt last too long. Im thinking that there are 2 possible causes
1) This time when I clamped down really hard to stop a piss (Ive had a weird feeling down there ever since this moment which was 2 years ago!)
2) Having sex/masturbating about 7 times in a row some mornings when Im hungover. After about the fourth time I only last seconds!

So is there anything I can do?

[billy1964]

try some de-sensitizing creme. you may be just to sensitive. also 7 times in a row may be a little much.:shock: you trying out for a record? :lol:

[Mad_Dog]

also 7 times in a row may be a little much.:shock: you trying out for a record? :lol:

No lol. Its just that I used to go to my girlfriends house and do it once or twice and then come back home and think about how good it was with her and have to sort myself out again. I know its weird but I have always been like this for as long as I can remember. Which is why I may have overdone it quite a bit. I mean in an average week I would have come about 30-40 times counting masturbation and sex. And on top of this I play soccer twice a week, work out 3-4 times a week and work long hour shifts doing heavy physical work. I have cut down on physical activity and noticed im not as tired now but it hasnt cured the problem.

[SusurrusK]

Everytime you masturbate from now on, do so for at least 30 minutes. After a couple of weeks, you should last at least that in bed. I got this knowledge from this here forum a few weeks ago and it's starting to help me. Go have a look for tips on how to last longer, there's quite a lot on here.

And again, I really don't think it's your PC. Are you stressed, have you changed diet at all? Things like this can affect you also.

[billy1964]

Everytime you masturbate from now on, do so for at least 30 minutes. After a couple of weeks, you should last at least that in bed. I got this knowledge from this here forum a few weeks ago and it's starting to help me. Go have a look for tips on how to last longer, there's quite a lot on here.

And again, I really don't think it's your PC. Are you stressed, have you changed diet at all? Things like this can affect you also.

good post.:cool been doing your homework. keep on doing what your doing. knowledge is power.:cheeky:

[Wannathrillher]

I have an alternative suggestion. Try NOT masturbating for awhile. I think you're overstroking the cock. The same thing happened to me when I was beating off that much. It is not good for you to be ejaculating 30-40 times a week man!

The PC muscle goes into a series of contractions each time you ejaculate and it should be allowed to fully recover before you make it go through the trauma of another skeet. If you don't let it fully recover you will have problems kegeling blood into your penis effectively, thus hindering PE gains.

That spasm you're feeling is a symptom of overexhausting your PC, most likely from ejaculating too frequently. I know it's hard to stop beating off, especially if you live in a boring town/city, but I think you will find that the gains come faster if you do.

You'll also last longer in bed if you work on doing kegel exercises and leave the dick alone more. It may be that your wang is just so used to you bringing it to climax that you've conditioned it to be ready to blow at any touch. Take a break and you'll feel better.

I'm only offering these words of advice because I was in the same place. I used to beat off all the time, and my PC muscle used to do that too. My wang also got pretty compact and small from doing all the stroking.

Good luck buddy!

[SusurrusK]

^^ Yea, common sense really. Try that and when you do get to the point where you just need to let go, do it for at lest half an hour. But try and keep the self-lovin' to at least once a day.

[Bobo]

Didn't read every post, so sorry if I repeat something. The PC muscle is a muscle, so you can't really do any other damage to it except overtrain it. You can damage your bicep at the gym, but the pc-muscle... all you can do is tense it (without any extra weights) so you can't break it.

Ease up on the kegels, let it rest... if the problem is there after that, then the problem isn't the muscle at all but something else. In that case it doesn't sound PE-related at all.

[Mad_Dog]

Thanx a lot guys good to know someone else cares for my penis too :p

Yeah I have been laying off the chicken choking a little and it does seem to have stopped the spams but whenever I do service myself I still feel like blowing pretty much straight away. It feels really weird especially seeing as I used to last quite long.

And Bobo, the only thing you may have missed is the fact that I once squeezed my pc muscle so hard whilst pissing that I made the flow stop, and it has been ever since then that i have been experiencing problems. My penis feels "hard" and compact all the time. feels kinda dead and lifeless.

Wannathillher, that sounds like good advice bro. I know its common sense but I cant help but masturbate a lot, guess its just the way I was made. Anyway Im gonna get off the internet. Too much temptation!!! Peace fellas

[SusurrusK]

Anyway Im gonna get off the internet. Too much temptation!!! Peace fellas

A good start! Just don't get too bored!