That first kiss

[wern]

Anyone care to share how they get to initially kiss the chick they are hooking up with. Is there a set method for you or are there any classic hookups you want to share for all the budding casanovas in Cherry land?

I'll give an example. If I want to hook up with a chick on a date, I will usually compliment her on her perfume and start smelling her neck and softly touching it, then after about 3 minutes of that I will start discretely breathing on it through my nose so it doesn't seem too abrupt. It turns them on incredibly as the neck and ears are one the a womans strongest erogenous zones. Then I will sit back a bit and look at her eyes and her lips and back and go in for a kiss slowly.

[Matt]

:lol: sounds weird to me!

[Matt]

People will tell you to not ask for the kiss and to just go for it... i say bollox. Ask, it's much easier.

[Shane_Bos]

Easier to avoid embarrassment. I just try it, what have you got to lose, plus, its a bit more romantic as if you ask i feel it kind of spoils the mood and the woman tends to think, 'fucking hell, shut up and kiss me!'

[wern]

I have asked many many times Matt. It only ever worked once. I'll give you 3 scenarios that happened to me:

1. Chick I met that night: I was sitting on a beach at night with a chick and told her in seriosuness that I was attracted to her and didn't want to jump on her without her permission and create an embarassing situation. I asked her if she is attracted to me. She said yes. I asked her if she would like to kiss me. She said yes. We kissed, and fucked a week later.

2. Chick I met that day: I was on a boat with this chick who I was certain was into me. I told her the same shit I said above. She said she liked me but didn't think it was a good time to be kissing as she didn't know me that well. I persisted and just tried to kiss her but she kept withdrawing her head (yes I am a bastard). I was sweet talking her and she wanted it but was unsure. Finally she kissed me and she was sooo happy about it. She said it was like she was in fantasy land. She was so glad to hook up with me that it kida turned me off (did I mention that I am a bastard?).

3. Chick I knew as a friend (well she knew me as a friend. I knew her as hookup material). Same as in 2, only without the happy ending. She kissed me at the end after I talked her into it. More like argued her into it. She also told me that the best hookup she ever had was when she was drunk and a guy just spun her around, as he was behind her, and started pashing her.

So while the talk works, the other method is just as good if not better, because chicks can easily pick up on you that you are trying to get with them. Because guys are trying to get with them all the time.

[MagnumXL]

just wait for the right time man... ALL guys no matter how bad of a love life they have KNOW that special moment. im not saying u have a bad love life or whatever im just saying YOU will know when its the right time. You two will lock eyes, nothing will be said, and you move closer and she just gazes into your eyes. cmon man! YOU KNOW THE DRILL! GIVE ME 10 PUSHUPS FOR ASKING! :twisted:

[wern]

Not all guys know the right time. And I am comig from a "player" approach. That's the best way I can put it. My approach involves picking chicks up quickly like on a first date. That special moment may not happen for quite a while unless you know how to make it happen.

[Bobo]

I haven't had any trouble with that, it has always been the girl that makes the first move... maybe I'm slow or something? When I met my ex-wife, we talked for an hour or two... and then in an elevator she just put her arms around me and kissed me... a total surprise to me! Chicks are weird that way. :P

[wern]

I have had that as well, but I like to be able control things. For example, our secretary wants me to hook up with her friend who is pretty cute. I met her today because she was visiting the secretary and I wanted to get her number but felt too awkward because there were three chicks there the whole time and I felt like I was on the spot. I was hoping she would be mature enough to realise the situation and ask for it (she is 6 years older than me :wink: ). But nothing,. I will probably hook up with her anyway later on, but you get the point.

[Matt]

When I say "ask" a woman before a kiss, I mean mention it. I've read so many times that you should never ask, or suggest it and then it will be more magical.

I say bollocks to that. Not all of us have the guts to go for gold unless that special moment IS at hand.

I say it's better (with a bird you don't know) to say "I want to kiss you" and judge her reaction. Or even, "can I have a kiss".

Or what works best with drunk birds you've known only 2-3 minutes... Little hug/squeeze/cuddle, little peck that turns into full on shiiit.

[Clockers]

With me and who ever i'am with, it seems to just happen. Never had a problem getting a kiss from a woman. Actually, there were times when they would ask me, so i never really had to try at all. To kiss someone i just go half way, and they cum the other half. :cheeky:

[Bobo]

I just wanted to see how Your text looks with the ".":s and ",":s, Clockie, no offence meant... :lol:

[Clockers]

It does look better, but i never really used them so at anytime, you want just add them for me..heheh!

[Spike]

Never had a problem getting a kiss from a woman. Actually, there were times when they would ask me, so i never really had to try at all.

FYI: Women are more flirty and comfortable with gay men. (Not implying anything)
:lol: :lol:

Which reminds me - http://gprime.net/audio/gaychannelcall.php

[Shane_Bos]

:lol: :lol:

[Matt]

:lol::lol: :lol: :lol:

[ownd]

i need a girl that makes the first move i have yet to find one, i always tend to find th dam shy ones lol.

[oldie42]

With me and who ever i'am with, it seems to just happen. Never had a problem getting a kiss from a man. Actually, there were times when men would ask me, so i never really had to try at all. To kiss someone i just go half way, and they cum the other half. :cheeky:

Clockie...no need to boast about it :roll:

[Clockers]

sorry didn't really mean it to sound that way. :( :puke:













yes i did..


heheh! :lol:

[Spike]

:lol: :lol:

I assume you don't read slowly either.

[Valk]

In the "Speedreading course for cowboys" they dont make a difference between men and women.

[Clockers]

:lol: :lol:

I assume you don't read slowly either.



That bitch, :lol: I should have read it.. Shame on you oldie 'Sir' :x

[oldie42]

:lol: :lol:

I assume you don't read slowly either.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

[wern]

lol. nasty

[Clockers]

It was good, :lol: That bitch!! :evil:

[MaxXx]

if you want to get to the action than fuck waiting for her to do the 1st move...some may be really shy...some are like hmmmm i'll just wait and see if he makes the 1st move which will determine if he really likes me or not...so just go for it ...best time is when she is laughin or bored.haha :P PEACE

[wern]

bored.. nice one. :mrgreen

[wern]

by the way Matt, I was with this chick last night and my usual methods weren't working, so I asked her "would you like to kiss me?"

she said "no"

(but at the end of the night she did)

[Clockers]

She was probably just playing hard to get. :cool

[wern]

I have no respect for women that play hard to get

[Spike]

That wouldn't be an animated ava perchance?

[Clockers]

He keeps winking at me, and i like it.. :puke:

[wern]

That wouldn't be an animated ava perchance?

yes it is :mrgreen . Is this ok?

[Matt]

by the way Matt, I was with this chick last night and my usual methods weren't working, so I asked her "would you like to kiss me?"

she said "no"

(but at the end of the night she did)

Big mistake... It's not "would you like to kiss me".. it's "I want to kiss you".

Kind of a rhetorical question and you don't as much wait for an answer, you wait for a change in body language. If she says nothing and looks disgusted, you know not to, but you haven't been rejected and can save face. Chances are, you'll get every "come on" you need from that.

Glad you got there in the end though:D

[wern]

Listen mate, as much of a bastard as I may sound, I don't care if she kisses me on that date. There's only one thing I want from her and she had one more chance to kiss me (on the next date) otherwise goodbye. I'm gonna stop seeing her anyways. I think it'l be too hard to get in her pants. And I don't want to hurt her by being charming and making her feel deep feelings for me and then blowing her off which I will 99.99% do (I need to provide room for statistical error)

[Bobo]

I think I'm getting old... I don't even try to kiss on the first date. Taking things slow these days, a bit too slow actually. Met this nice brunette last weekend and didn't even ask her name... that's always a bad idea. Well, she has been asking around about me after that, and she's really interested they say. Maybe my "hard to get" -attitude was the key? Maybe not.

[wern]

I actually never kiss on the first date because i will come off as a sleaze. This was our second date. Usually by the third date I either get oral or intercourse. If I don't get either by the fiurth, bye bye. I am 23, these are the years for fun and mucking around :mrgreen

Women love hard to get guys. It's a fact. You should always act uninterested in anything more than friendship, verbally, so be all laid-back. At the same time, flirt like hell. And keep blowing her off. Works wonders. I have this chick calling me everyday, telling me she is "bored". And it's always this way after the actually start dating me.