Advice guys... need it bad :<

[MagnumXL]

Whatup guys... hellooooooo. Ive been having personal issues with MYSELF for awhile now. For the past 6 months or so I just dont seem to by myself. Im so passive to everything around me like im just passive to everything and it seems to be pushing my friends and family away. Its like before I would go to a party and girls would naturally make the first move... but ever since im being this dead zombie I just feel like an outcast no matter where I go or do. Can you give me some advice to get over this feeling of shit rot and decay thats eating me up? Dont bother asking questions about my home life because I cant think of anything that could be causing it. How do you guys cheer yourself up? Like not some bs answer like yeah I buy ice cream and yay fuck my girl. Im seriously pooped out and infact A Perfect Circle's passive seems to justify my mood.

[Spike]

Try colonic irrigation. :lol:

Sounds like you've taken early retirement, lost the dream and given up on whatever propelled you forwards before.

As we live in the capitalisic west, start a new business and make a few million $$ by 14th October 2011.

[MagnumXL]

Yeah man jumpstarting my life financially would boost me up greatly. I gotta start investing some time into internet ideas cuz theres a lot of money to be made here.

[Valk]

Where is that Martial Arts dream Magnum, where are all the dreams you had as a little kid Mag?
You've just been numbed by society like it happens to so many.
Find the little kid inside of you Mag and see life for the adventure it really is.

[Spike]

I gotta start investing some time into internet ideas cuz theres a lot of money to be made here.

Exactly. Are you an expert at Dreamweaver?

[MagnumXL]

Not an expert but I did take classes on it and I have messed around with it on my free time. Im good at photoshop + web design so there has to be something to gain from that. As far as my martial arts go I havent been doing it lately. It seems this past 6 months I have had to carry around a ball and chain with me wherever I go... an invisible ball and chain that is :p

[ColdShroom]

How old are you?

Everyone goes through stages... (as you probably already know). This might be your first 'midlife crisis'. (I've had at least 2 already)

Enjoy it. :D

But seriously.. hmm.. things to cheer you up? Hard to say. Personally... whenever I'm down, I just recognize the fact that I'm down.. and realize that I've been happy before, and then just tell myself that "this will pass"

As gay as that may sound, it may not be so easy to do.

Other than that.. You could look at making some drastic change... like a new hair style, try something new you've never done before, new exercise routine, etc. Just mix it up a bit. you may have a case of the hum-drums.

If you have a girl.. then be honest with her, and let her know that you're down. She may go out of her way to do something nice for you, and, aside from being cheered up by the nice things she doing, you also can feel blessed by having such a wonderful person at your side, who genuinely cares for you.

[MagnumXL]

Actually the girl that I thought I was in love with totally backstabbed me last night and went with one of my best friends... man that didnt help situations in my life at all. Fuck women man I wish there was like a guy exactly like me but with long hair cute face big tits and a vagina. :(

[MagnumXL]

Fuck man I just broke down crying just now.... I dont know what it is but I feel so much better now that I got that out of me. Wow man I love you guys <3

[ColdShroom]

Wow man I love you guys <3


Someone's hittin' the sauce..

:D


j/k pal. Everyone goes through shit.. you'll be up and pimpin in no time. Just ride it out.

[MagnumXL]

Thanks man. No seriously I love you guys. I wanna start like a CC mafia so if anyone fucks with you guys they are goin down baby. Like not shooting people but like connecting their horn to the brake line on their car. :lol:

[K-man]

Someone's hittin' the sauce..

:D

On a Saturday night...no, surely not. :lol: :lol:

Mag, its like Shroom said, we all go through phases of wondering what the fuck is happening. Dont beat yourself up about it, it'll pass. It's good to have a cry every now and then, it gets rid of pent up emotion.

As for the girl, does she know you're into her? It's a pretty low move for her to go with one of your friends if she does! More to the point, does your friend know how you feel? Its an unspoken rule that you dont tread on the toes of your friends, where girls are concerned, so you may want to re-evaluate that friendship.

Keep smiling :lol: :lol:

[wern]

Meditate