Shane_Bos
8th August 2006, 08:19 PM
Ok, so ive just broken up with my hot now ex-girlfriend who ive known since we were little but only hooked up about 5 weeks ago.
My reasoning was that we had 5 arguments in as many weeks.
Argument 1: We were down the beach with some of my mates drinking on a hot day, we aranged to go home and get ready to go out but i felt ill and passed out on my bed. When she rang me i was off with her apparently but i dont remember this happening. I can understand why this upset her but i didnt have chance to tell her i wouldnt be going out, i passed out!
Argument 2: We aranged to meet one night, she met her friends before me cos i was at work until late-ish. She text me while i was at work and said she was going to be doing drugs. I said she could chose, see me or do drugs with her mates. I ended up going home, she didnt do the drugs, but was too late by this point. She thought i was trying to change her. I said she can do drugs, just not around me. I was just pissed off cos we aranged to meet and now we couldnt.
Argument 3: We went clubbing one night, with my friends, and aparently they didnt make her feel welcome and she saw/heard one of them say something nasty about her, got upset, got a taxi home without me. I was annoyed, i had to walk home. When i met her near my house, we argued and she went home, locked herself up and wouldnt speak. This annoys me beyond belief, when there's a problem and yet, you wont even talk to sort it out.
Cant even remember what argument 4 was.
Argument 5: I waited up for her until 12.30pm last night for her to get home at work (she finishes at 11 but sometimes stays later). She actualy went out and didnt tell me so i got fed up of waiting and went to bed. Then today, we were meant to go out about 3.30. I turned down plans to meet a friend i havent seen in ages to meet her. However, my ex goes home and without telling me, goes to sleep cos she went out last night then went to work without sleeping. Aparently, she couldnt take 10 seconds out of an 8 hour shift to txt me to tell me. I try and speak but she doesnt see theres a problem so we argue, we split up.
Now, whenever theres a disagreement, im the sort of person that tries to talk things out. She, however, gets annoyed, puts the phone down then we have to argue by txt cos thats the only way she will reply. Also, she never listens to what i say. Argument 5, she kept saying, 'im tired, for fuck sake, thats all'. When that wasnt my problem. I tried to explain that it was the fact she didnt tell me we wouldnt be seeing eachother so i could have done something else with my long-time-no-see friend and the fact i waited up 1 1/2 hours the night before for her.
I coldnt speak to her so i wrote her a letter and dropped it round her house saying that this wasnt a plan to get rid of her, my reasons for parting, the reason i had to split up by txt (cos she wouldnt answer the phone! :x ) and that i wanted to be friends cos we've known eachotha our whole lives and when we finally get to be together, by ourselves, we're wicked etc.
I even waited by her house incase she wanted to speak but she txt me saying, 'leave me alone. i dont wana hear from you, not after today, not again. i duno why you wana hurt me so much but your plans worked. I dont think i can be your friend. Not when i wanted more. You could have just stopped playing me like every other guy.'
Im so pissed off cos its all bullshit. I know shes been fucked around alot by men. I think, shes got a ready made stereotype of men in her head, and for that reason, has to be 'strong' and not admit shes wrong and also, any man that splits up with her automatially played her.
Fuck! I never played her, i put more effort into this relationship that i have into any other. I tell her that and everything else in my letter and still, 'i played her'. It fucking annoys me when people cant see past the end of their own fuckin noses!
Shit guys, she was georgeous too.
My reasoning was that we had 5 arguments in as many weeks.
Argument 1: We were down the beach with some of my mates drinking on a hot day, we aranged to go home and get ready to go out but i felt ill and passed out on my bed. When she rang me i was off with her apparently but i dont remember this happening. I can understand why this upset her but i didnt have chance to tell her i wouldnt be going out, i passed out!
Argument 2: We aranged to meet one night, she met her friends before me cos i was at work until late-ish. She text me while i was at work and said she was going to be doing drugs. I said she could chose, see me or do drugs with her mates. I ended up going home, she didnt do the drugs, but was too late by this point. She thought i was trying to change her. I said she can do drugs, just not around me. I was just pissed off cos we aranged to meet and now we couldnt.
Argument 3: We went clubbing one night, with my friends, and aparently they didnt make her feel welcome and she saw/heard one of them say something nasty about her, got upset, got a taxi home without me. I was annoyed, i had to walk home. When i met her near my house, we argued and she went home, locked herself up and wouldnt speak. This annoys me beyond belief, when there's a problem and yet, you wont even talk to sort it out.
Cant even remember what argument 4 was.
Argument 5: I waited up for her until 12.30pm last night for her to get home at work (she finishes at 11 but sometimes stays later). She actualy went out and didnt tell me so i got fed up of waiting and went to bed. Then today, we were meant to go out about 3.30. I turned down plans to meet a friend i havent seen in ages to meet her. However, my ex goes home and without telling me, goes to sleep cos she went out last night then went to work without sleeping. Aparently, she couldnt take 10 seconds out of an 8 hour shift to txt me to tell me. I try and speak but she doesnt see theres a problem so we argue, we split up.
Now, whenever theres a disagreement, im the sort of person that tries to talk things out. She, however, gets annoyed, puts the phone down then we have to argue by txt cos thats the only way she will reply. Also, she never listens to what i say. Argument 5, she kept saying, 'im tired, for fuck sake, thats all'. When that wasnt my problem. I tried to explain that it was the fact she didnt tell me we wouldnt be seeing eachother so i could have done something else with my long-time-no-see friend and the fact i waited up 1 1/2 hours the night before for her.
I coldnt speak to her so i wrote her a letter and dropped it round her house saying that this wasnt a plan to get rid of her, my reasons for parting, the reason i had to split up by txt (cos she wouldnt answer the phone! :x ) and that i wanted to be friends cos we've known eachotha our whole lives and when we finally get to be together, by ourselves, we're wicked etc.
I even waited by her house incase she wanted to speak but she txt me saying, 'leave me alone. i dont wana hear from you, not after today, not again. i duno why you wana hurt me so much but your plans worked. I dont think i can be your friend. Not when i wanted more. You could have just stopped playing me like every other guy.'
Im so pissed off cos its all bullshit. I know shes been fucked around alot by men. I think, shes got a ready made stereotype of men in her head, and for that reason, has to be 'strong' and not admit shes wrong and also, any man that splits up with her automatially played her.
Fuck! I never played her, i put more effort into this relationship that i have into any other. I tell her that and everything else in my letter and still, 'i played her'. It fucking annoys me when people cant see past the end of their own fuckin noses!
Shit guys, she was georgeous too.