average not so bad?

[Steve Madden]

ive been thinking about something and wonder what you guys think. im as big on enlarging the penis as anyone here i think, but i feel that many of the insecurities that surround average penis size are sad and unfounded. i think if your reasonbly average, say 5.5-.75-6-whatever and have a reasonable girth, youve got the tools to take care of most girls sexually. of course, a larger penis probably wouldnt hurt, but its more to improve on a good thing than something thats nessisary to be good in the sack. really its got more to do with the confidence level, and as such you can become more attractive to the opposite sex immediatly by taking some of the pressure off yourself. think you can do it and your more likely to be able to, that is of course until you busting at the seams from all your Pe-ing. all this comes from my discovery that a lot of girls deisribe the ideal penis as somewhere around 7 inches or so, so what im saying is that inch or inch 1/2 probably wont be a dealbreaker for most. girth seems to be what counts the most, and with that 5-6" seems to be the preferred. please share your thoughts and i look foward to a good discussion about this as i think its an issue that should be addressed as the best way to look at PE is from both a realistic and postive perspective (and they happen to be the same one)

[wern]

Firstly, girls don't know about penis length. I know lots of girls and none have ever mentioned their preferred penis length. Some have made positive remarks about large penises and some positive jokes etc and some say they don't like them too much.
An average size dick wouldn't be a deal breaker. Once you are at the stage where they see your schlong, the deal is pretty much done.

Most guys don't even know how to measure a penis properly, so the only idea a chick would have about penis size would be from a magazine, not from personal experience, and by the way, reading about an 8incher and actually seeing one - you wouldn't be able to tell it's an 8incher if you are a chick unless you are very experienced, aka a slut.

Secondly, a woman receives stimulation in her vagina due to a large concentration of nerve endings there. I am of the beliefe that a harder penis is more important than a larger penis because harder=more contours that she can feel = more stimulation = more chance of orgasm.
Having said that, a harder and large penis is much better because more of the nerve endings are stimulated more intensly.

Thirdly, PE can increase youre confidence but in my opinion confidence isn't the key factor on picking chicks up. I believe it is indiferrence. You can reach a point where you don't get emotionally affected by approaching chicks. You can appraoch and talk to any chick on command and get numbers and meet up. It's not confidence, its just not giving a damn. Girls are very used to being talked by guys. It's cheezyness that they don't like. Most girls enjoy a nice conversation because they like the attention.

Don't PE to pick chicks up. PE to have a larger, harder, healthier prick. If you want to feel adeqate you need to understand that you could have a big dick and get shit all with chicks while at the same time you could have a small dick and get lots of chicks.

[OneMoreRep]

It's not about what the girls want. It's what we want ;)

[MagnumXL]

It's not about what the girls want. It's what we want ;)


yeah no shit. i already get all the girls i want, having a big penis is just to satisfy my prime ape ego. :mrgreen

[Steve Madden]

thanks guys, great feedback. i agree totally with whats been said so far

[Steve Madden]

by the way i read in Men's Health Magizine that hardness isnt really a factor, i find this hard to believe, maybe theyre just making softies feel better without doing any improvement excercises, who knows? a hard dick cant hurt, well not too much anyway :mrgreen :mrgreen

[MagnumXL]

a hard dick can make the difference between a girl thinking ur small and huge

[wern]

A hard dick is the most important. Whoever wrote that article is probably impotent.

[MagnumXL]

or a dumbshit. thats whyi stopped reading all that bullshit in mens health magazines. they dont know jack. they just need shit to post to make it seem like they have the miracle fountain of youth answer to every guys problems.

[Steve Madden]

right then, a hard dick then is the main concern seems to be the general concensis, good to know as ive got no problems in that area, in fact its quiet the opposite :cool :cool

[OneMoreRep]

yeah no shit. i already get all the girls i want, having a big penis is just to satisfy my prime ape ego. :mrgreen

EXACTLY -- haha, Yo magnum you got MSN or an EMAIL?

[wern]

right then, a hard dick then is the main concern seems to be the general concensis, good to know as ive got no problems in that area, in fact its quiet the opposite :cool :cool

Being hard means being hard for a long time. If you're a one minute man you only have one minute of hardness, max 3 minutes if you have the stamina to ejaculate 3 times.
Kegel and build that PC muscle up and then you will be able to keep it hard for hours.

[MazaFunker]

I think, it's real bullshit that size doesn't matter. :mrgreen :mrgreen :mrgreen

All girls like big dicks. But one more problem is not only small penis but your acting in bed. :wink:

If you can't satisfy your partner you are a loser. :cry:

[Steve Madden]

interesting maz, i agree to an extent, however i was just questioning how realistic it is to quantify all women's preferences by assuming that bigger is always better. to me this sounds like an oversimplification common amond males who typically interesting in single answer solutions to more complicated questions. certainkly size does matter in the way that its is important to have the "right" size in order to most please a woman, and this isnt nessisarily always a bigger size. i would predict that woman have their "ideal" range for size, then a realm to the left and right of this of sizes that they can tolerate/enjoy. if your outside of that your out of luck, 12 inches or 2. my initial prediction that penis size, while relevant to some extent to the actual pleasure of the woman is important, a womans tendency towards prefering a large penis (if this is in fact a preference) may lie in the confidence of men having these large penises. not to mix analogies here, but much like a woman who doesnt nessisarily love expensive cars may be attracted to a man driving one because of the implications involved, namely that if he has a car he must have some money as well. this isnt the best i know,and its wide open to compensation jokes, but its the best i could think of. whether or not size is imortant outside of extreme cases of small or large, the concensus seems to be that performance is the dominated factor, both in staying power/hardness and technique. based on this i would suggest, for everyone as well as myself, that these things should be improved as a top priority, while penis enlargement would come next, as this is mostly for our own kicks and may or may not come on to satisfying our partners (unless of course youve got a 2" hard on, then id get to jelqing)

[wern]

As I stated earlier. Ask yourself why a woman's view on size important? Does it determine whether you hook up? Hell no. Does it determine whether you have sex? Only if the man has a problem with it. Maybe less than 5% of women in general would even make an issue of it unless they were blind drunk, in which case you can't really expect much anyways. But by the time you were in the position that involved showing them your dick - ie getting head, screwing is just around the corner and the deal is pretty much done.

[Steve Madden]

so really this forum like PE, as i believe was stated earlier, is just for our own entertainment :cool sort of goes back the the old "boys with toys" scenerio

[Shane_Bos]

And for motivation and info if anyone needs something cleared up but alot just come to chat :D

[wern]

You shouldn't PE to pick up. You should PE to make your penis larger and harder.

If that increases your confidence then it's an added benefit but it isn't the fundamental purpose of PE.

[MagnumXL]

Well if i had a dick like Godmas i WOULD use my penis to pick up. i would probably go naked a lot more than i do now. Oh well, in due time... GODMA IMMA BE UR SIZE SOON U WAIT BIOTCH! :wink:

[wern]

Yeh I suppose there is a certain environment where the size of your dick can attract strangers. And that environment is the nude beach. I will definately start visiting one in a few months once I have a monster down there.

[Growing]

I remember over-hearing a group of female friends talking about dick size a few years ago :x

The bigger, the better they basically made it sound like. Although they thought 9 inches was enormous.

That episode is what really pushed me to research whether healthy enlargement is at all possible :evil: . I plan to find that out soon enough.

[BIGOKE]

Take it from a guy who was EL 4 3/4 by 4 approx. Size does matter. While chicks like good conversation and fun, if your'e not hitting certain spots you're losing. Most chicks will stay with mr average because of time commitment and love etc, but I have seen some "jump off the yacht" literally for an "ocean liner". love not withstanding. As far as tolerance of size by chicks it depends. If she has previously been streched then her experience with Mr average will be negative. If not then Mr average will meet her every need. I speak from experience. i don't believe for one second that size dosent matter. Why be average when you know that even above average will take you down. Size matters my friends.

[MazaFunker]

i agree too. Every girl first tells that size doesn't really matter, but when you are in bed, you can see in her eyes, she is disappointed.
So, guys, we should always be in a good form: big dick, long erections. :wink: :mrgreen

[wern]

When you get that look just slap it out of her. Tell her "I have gained 1 inches and am now 6" Biotch!! "slap!!

[hugh g rection]

Girls do like bigger dicks, but they care about the person behind it. Having said that, if you have a huge dick, you can pull a lot of tail by letting them now and letting them choose. Women love the illusion of choice, and they feel empowered by it.


Leads to grrrrreat sex. Mwua ha ha ha.

[wern]

are you still with your girl hugh?

[groove champion]

i agree too. Every girl first tells that size doesn't really matter, but when you are in bed, you can see in her eyes, she is disappointed.
So, guys, we should always be in a good form: big dick, long erections. :wink: :mrgreen

Yep you fkin bet mate, nothing worse than knowing your not big enough for the job, its a killer

[hugh g rection]

are you still with your girl hugh?

Indeed I am, almost 10 months now.

I am speaking from past experience on the whole issue, trust me. I was single for a while with my upgraded package and basically figured out the way to fuck any woman you want.

[wern]

Hmm I haven't gotten into that sort of female circle where they just wanna fuck for fun. I have always had to hook chicks one by one from different circles because so far they are all interested in a relationship and not in any hurry to tell their friends about any skills I may have. Maybe I just don't have any. Or maybe I am living in the wrong country. hmm

[BIGOKE]

Hmm I haven't gotten into that sort of female circle where they just wanna fuck for fun. I have always had to hook chicks one by one from different circles because so far they are all interested in a relationship and not in any hurry to tell their friends about any skills I may have. Maybe I just don't have any. Or maybe I am living in the wrong country. hmm

Wern don't always go after the CIndy Crawford types, try the not so perfect types, lots of sex to be had there, and the quality is not bad too. Also stress the "I like you bit and not the I love you". And also tell them you desire them for a good fuck only. You'll be surprised how many of them just want that. If you miss try it on the next. You're bound to hit somewhere. And after that it just becomes easy. And ... use a condom!!!! :lol: :lol:

[wern]

bigoke, thanks mate but its not like that. They want a relationship and all they get is fucked anyways. I don't dig my own grave and I will only tell a chick I love her if it serves a perpose ;) wern = :evil:
I think at my age this is acceptable tho

The best I have gotten from chicks diggin my skills is group sex but its not like they went and told all their friends. lol.

[BIGOKE]

Wern if we all had 9 we'd be famous, too early to start my routine now, but I might just do it anyway. Onward and upward to 6 and beyond. :roll: :cool

[OneMoreRep]

i'd like to believe we all COULD have 9 if we kept at it.