DRunk and confused / depressed

[ownd]

i wish i could just say i can get back with my ex and it was that easy for me FUKKK, let me state the facts so all you can decide what i shoudl do,

Shes mad hot perfect body, she wantst to bang if we dated, obsessed with me blah blah,

cons are she lives very far from me, driving is like 40 mins one wasy not countining back and forth adn and all tha shit , that exteremely sux, second shez younger then im used to, third shez very shy around my friends and my friends are a big part of my life, i cant like bring her aorund them to chiill cuz she feels uncomfrotablr.

what sould i do please help me, the biggest thing that annoys me is the driving distance and she has no car, FUKKKKKk

[ColdShroom]

Well, 40 mins isn't too bad.

Having a chick living close to you can often be more of a nusance.. :lol:

Some time ago, you were complaining how you felt like you were drifting apart from your mates.. not sure where that is now.. but if it's still like that, I wouldn't base your decision on whether to date this chick on that.

Shit.. if she lives far from you.. then you hang with her from time to time. Not to sound like an asshole, but that's a perfect excuse not to be with her too much.

Distance can be a good thing.. when you get together, you fuck like it's going out of style.. then you have time apart, and both of you lie in anticipation of the next encounter.

Dude, I don't see the problem. Not too long ago you were going on about how it's hard for you to get chicks.. now you have one on a string, and you're confuzed?

What exactly is the problem? :?

[soserious]

Hmm, got yourself some problems here bro.
Well, YOU are the decider in this you know. So how often do you get(would you ) get to see her a week say? if you are studying hard and/or working then I might imagine what? a couple times a week maybe? If that is the case then 40 mins drive there and back isn`t as big a deal as all that (or maybe it is??) in London here many folks drive and travel 2+ hours everyday EACH WAY just to go to boring old work, let alone see some hot piece of ass on a friday night..

How`d you meet her?

[soserious]

What exactly is the problem? :?

The poor guy is a lil` drunk I`m guessing and missing hes mates more and this could mean that he`ll see hes mates less often. I can see hes point on that but everything you just said seem good reasons TO see this girl.

[ColdShroom]

Ok.. so let me see if I summarize.

You have a smoking hot young chick who wants to fuck you, and who is, evidently, madly in love with you (or at the very least 'obsessed' with you).

She lives 40 minutes away.

She doesn't like your friends.

She doesn't have a car.



How young are we talking her? Are you looking stat charges or something? :lol:



This sounds like a near perfect situation to me. Shit.. you tell the chick 'Look sweetheart.. I dig you, but you can't ask me to abandon my friends.. So I'm going to need to split my time between you and them.'

If she looses it.. than so be it. What's the problem? If you don't want to loose her, then you tell the same to your friends.. who you have already stated are becoming more and more distant to you anyways.

If she agrees... then you have a little hottie on the side to have sex with, and some chums on the other to do whatever it is that you do.

I really don't see the problem.. aside from you being drunk..

Wait.. how the fuck is being drunk a problem!?!? :lol: Where's my beer!?

[soserious]

*pssst*
Well, if YOU TWO are drinking.. Now wheres them pizzas at??

[ownd]

MANNN im still drunk but thanks everyone thats some fuking good advice dudes, i must ponder all this into my drunk head lmao. Hmmm gotta thin this thourhg thanks everyone.

[Valk]

Thats it!

Spike, give Ownd his new nickname: The Whino

Dude, some people can't even get girlfriends and you're whining about this kind of stuff?

[ownd]

lmao, your right valk the past weeks i have been like that i shall take this temporary nick name but i promise next week i will be reborn haha.

[OceanMotion]

If there's one thing I've seen from ownd's posts it's that he spends way too much time frettin the petty shtuff. How can you actualy put depressed in the title?

1. Of course she is shy around your friends. I'm gonna assume that, because she's a younger age category, she's the only person she knows when hanging with you+friends. TONS of people need time to get comfortable in a group before they speak too much. Best way to help with that is for her to meet your friends individualy. Don't bring her to hang with 6 of your mates, hang with her and 1 or 2 of them. Heck gettin your mates to help make things comfortable should be a priority.

2. Driving can be a bitch. I can understand that being a deterant. Do you have your own place? I mean crashing at each-others place always helps. Or meeting up somewhere imbetween. I don't know what that situation is going to be like for you.

In the end it doesn't really matter. I mean you go with it and see if it works. The biggest risk you're running is not being able to put up with the cons and having to break it off. You should establish this as a possibility when you first start dating for her sake. Worst case is you hurt her, and need to run through the awkwardness of breaking up. Maybe you get hurt too, but I mean you didn't even mention as to wether she meant much to you. Regret things you did, not things you didn't do.

[1BigDong]

Listen to Ocean you must, yes!:) :mrgreen

[ownd]

yea great advice no we dont have our own places, but i think ima give it a try, last night she got pissed off cuz i said i had some issues i had to get past and i didnt tell her waht they were which you all kon what thye are already, and im like its my problem dont worry, and shez like well its my fucking problem cuz i wnna be with you and hung up, so gotta let her cool down first lol.