dysfunction?

[sparks]

I have been peing for about 3 years. I stopped for a month over Christmas time because I went a little too hard on myself. Red bumps and slight scabbing took place for a couple of weeks but then went a way for good. Lately, I have had trouble getting a full erection. I should also state that I have never neen very disciplined on doing keg exersizes. Are my only options viagra and other perscription drugs? I have been following the advice from these forums for some time. I could really use some help. It sucks being twenty one and worrying about being able to get it up.

[Shane_Bos]

Give PE'ing a break for a while, do lots of kegels and you should be fine. Sometimes erection problems can be psychological also so try not to worry about it. Just go with it, when youre getting down with a girl, dont think 'am i gona get it up?' just enjoy the moment. The kegels should help strengthen your erection aswel so it shouldnt be a problem.

[wern]

As Shane says, kegelling is a very good start. I would also go to a doctor. You don't want to mess around with this. Get professional help. And work those kegels extra hard.

[Ed]

The whole nerve thing, when you are about to do the act is crazy. I've suffered from it myself. No problem when things are beginning. I'm as stiff as a board. But sometimes just before penetration... I think it is all part of the rush job. I'm not sure why but there is just pressure to get in there and perform, right away! But if you can just say to yourself, slow down boy, lets get back a few stages and let things build up again.

[wern]

happens to everyone. happens to me all the time with new chicks. Especially when I gotta put a condom on. Try to get the chick to put it on. Also go down on them before they go down on you, and then transition from them giving you head to the fucking, then you are more likely to be hard.