The myth on Stamina

[Zombie]

As I've been reading past topics before...most users say to just relax and enjoy it with the girl. While that is a huge metal thing to do is there anything to help you last longer? Is it really doing kegels and whatnot. Then say your getting that feel of your about to blow...is there anything to help your self contorl it and somethign to help yourself contorl it during sex?

Thanks

[1BigDong]

First Welcome to CC. Second I would say that Kegels are your best bet to learn to "Hold it" when you are about to blow.:) Either that or I hear that if you memorize baseball batting scores it helps.:lol:

[ColdShroom]

It must be different for everyone.

Personally.. when approaching climax, the best thing for me is to pull out. Kegeling, for me, tends to gush more blood into my dink, making the sensation even greater.

It's tough... takes practice. Good thing the practice is hella fun. :wink:

I find that if you can be open with your woman it can help matters emmencely. Tell her that you're trying to last.. make a joke about it, whatever.. It will be flattering for her, I reckon, if you tell her 'Damn, you're so hot, I can't help but to cum' Or something..

Maybe you're better off the 2nd time around.. throw off a quick batch, rest a little.. and then get back in there. Again, it may help to tell the chick your intentions.

[demon]

One thing that's helped me was looking at sex from a different P.O.V. (and suprisingly to myself, I never looked back!) Before I would have sex with a women because it felt good, and it felt good for us, etc. etc. Now I have sex for pure power, dominance, etc. I used to be the complete opposite till my friend told me to try it out for once. Not only did I last longer, but I lasted till I got tired (didn't cum) than it was her time to move so I wouldn't get to tired. ;) I know some people can't just have sex for power but give it a shot. Slap her ass a few times, say a few dirty words make sure you're really pounding the fuck out of her (was gonna say 'shit' but that wouldn't go to well with anal sex :D)

Don't do this with a girl whom you really like, practice this on someone who you'd just like to fuck and not see after that. I may get bashed for this post, don't be immature and neg. rep. me for this post. I'm not telling the kid to do it, I'm telling him what has (and could work for him) worked for me.

[EDIT]
P.S. Kegeling does help, but when you're about to cum hold the kegel for about 15 seconds than continue your activity. Start off with a few reps of kegels per every other day, than build up form there.

[ColdShroom]

Oh great.. we have a demon telling a zombie how to have sex.. :roll:


Hehehe... but, what you say is true. It no doubt depends on the chick, but I've known (err, fucked) girls who were *totally* into the ruff stuff. Not smash-me-upside-the-head ruff.. but as demon says.. a slap on the ass, dirty words.. the whole nine yards. To be honest, I could never get really into it myself, it always felt sort of forced (the dirty talk that is)... but slapping the ass was always nice.

I had one chick who wanted me to tie her up, and read poetry to her.. Damn weird-ass broad..

[demon]

Should've tied her up than stole her money. Oh wait, you were paying her! OUCH! :P <3 Shroom

[Wendell]

My last ditch effort is just say you want to change positions. This will give you a few seconds to collect yourself and will usually give you a few more minutes.

[ColdShroom]

If all else fails...


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[Tmac 1 LeBron 23]

First Welcome to CC.

He has been here longer than you have dude :lol:

[Zombie]

He has been here longer than you have dude :lol:

I'm just more of a reader then I am a poster.

[Mr.Bigs]

I say your breathing techniques is also very important. To help me last longer during sex I take slow deep breathes, and it helps to prevent the urge to cum. With the occassional kegel or two of course. I already have a strong PC muscle so I would assume that having strong PC muscles is very important as well. So kegeling to get a strong PC muscle would help as well.