Are gay guys under more pressure to be big?

[Spider]

This is just something that came up from Katsz's post "Have you told you're girlfriend/wife"

Just wondered what other guys (gay or straight) thought on the subject. As a gay guy I feel I'm under more pressure to compete in dick size with sexual partners. Of guys I've been with about 40% have been smaller and 60% have been bigger. My current boyfriend is a lot bigger.

But are straight guys under just as much pressure to measure up to their girlfriend's last partner? :?

[ownd]

yes

[Valk]

I always thought that gay guys could relate penis size a bit more.

[Spider]

Howdya mean Valk? Like more perceptive of each other's size? :?

[Valk]

More sensitive and understanding towards eachother. Both of the men having penises, they can put penis size in perspective. Its not that important.
I could be totally wrong ofcourse, for I have no experience with men.

[zwmusic]

But are straight guys under just as much pressure to measure up to their girlfriend's last partner?

You bet, but that's only if the person in question is in the habit of going out with the stupid and silly kind of women. There are many women who will actually use dick size to put someone deep down (and they bloody well know how and when to do it).

It very much depends on the kind of relationship you get yourself in. The more inward your partner looks at you (in terms of friendship and consideration as a human being) the less size becomes an issue. That I am sure goes for both, gay and straight.

[Clockers]

I agree!! good post zw..if there's love/care in this relationship then why should it matter..unless it matters to you! :cool


Anyways good luck Spidie on your journey in life! :wink:

[smooth]

But if it's wack in the sack, a relationship can go down the toilet.

[Shane_Bos]

True Smooth but i still think Zw makes sense in saying it wont matter if theres a connection. I feel that if i have a connection with someone, the sex is generally better than meaningless sex. Therefore, i would say that a good relationship will see good sex so it wont go down the toilet. A bit of a generalisation i know but its true to me and think it will be to others.

[Ed]

Even with a good relationship with a good person, a lot of guys sabotage their confidence: she thinks I'm no good in bed, blablabla, and then bring the problems to life. It all comes back to your level of self-confidence and comfort. If it's low, no matter how great your partner, you feel the pressure. That's what is great about PE (and CC for that matter): you can do something about it and make yourself feel better.

[wern]

I think the pressure comes from each person themselves. Women that act like bitches, as zwmusic mentioned, can compound it or even be the catalysts, but once the ball starts rolling, it takes character to stop it.

[Spider]

More sensitive and understanding towards eachother. Both of the men having penises, they can put penis size in perspective. Its not that important.
I could be totally wrong ofcourse, for I have no experience with men.

To some extent yes but it can work in reverse as well - one quite big guy I had a fling with (9x7) was "defined" by his size - he was basically a walking dick - he took the piss out of my size even though I'm above average - that's only happened the once fortunately.

It would seem that size isn't that much of an issue in a stable loving relationship, whereas something more casual - sex for the sake of sex - maybe it is - for me anyway.

[smooth]

I guess it all has to do with what your looking for. How many people in college looking to settle down?

[Ed]

I had a fling with (9x7) was "defined" by his size - he was basically a walking dick - he took the piss out of my size

Spider, he must have been a complete jerk. Can you imagine saying anything derogatory to a person with whom you want to have sex, and think your chances of sex will improve? Most people who want to get laid are on their best behaviour and its all: your so beautiful, etc.

[wern]

9x7??? that would cause some damage. :shock:

[Katsz]

This is just something that came up from Katsz's post "Have you told you're girlfriend/wife"
I guess I should've been more comprehensive with my title. Didn't mean to exclude the gay community, but I'm happy to be inspiring you! :mrgreen

[Spider]

Don't worry buddy no offense taken! :wink:

[OneMoreRep]

Spider, 9 x 7?

did you ask his secret?

one gay guy from the OLD CC, mentioned he PUMPED for years and gotten himself from like avg to like 9-10.. he had pictures up and everything.

[smooth]

I flinch at the thought of being gay with a boyfriend with 9x7.

[Spider]

His secret? I think being a twat must have helped - but he was typically Scottish - square jaw, well built etc and all natural I'd hate to have seen the effects of PE'ing or pumping! And although his size was fun for a bit - I think it could have become a chore after a while! :lol:

[zwmusic]

well built etc and all natural

Bloody lucky!