Describe Your dream girl.

[Bobo]

As the title says, describe the girl of Your dreams! I don't mean the usual crap about horny virgins with big boobies and shit like that, I mean the whole woman, personality included... the one You'd like to spend the rest of Your life with or however You want to live. What are the things You value highly in her personality, looks, behavior, background, attitude... whatever You find important. If looks are all that counts, then describe that centerfold beauty... but I'm sure that in the long run other characteristics become more important. You don't need to describe Your current gf either, she won't be reading this... describe Your dream girl, real or not. I'm sure all of You have some opinions in this matter.

[Spike]

Easily inflatable with realistic hair.

That's all.

Oh and easy to clean too. :mrgreen

:lol:

[Bobo]

:lol: So You prefer living single then? No nagging women? That's a good answer, Sir! :lol:

[ArTee63]

My dream girl just happens to be the woman I am with right now. :P

While she is not a drop dead beauty, there is no way one could call her anything but attractive.

What attracts us to each other is the similarities we have as well as the things where we seem more opposite. We compliment each other in that way.

She understands who I am and where I come from as do I with her. We think alike on mant topics, we are VERY compatible sexually, and we seem to have the same long term outlook on life.

What more could I ask for. She is a fabulous woman, a great lover and my best friend. :P

[Spike]

Well, describing a real woman is going to be a list of the usual - sexy, good looking, intelligent, sense of humour, fun to be with, great personality, nice tits, nice arse, likes sex, likes cooking, cleaning and washing things, etc etc.

And brown eyes.

[Valk]

Are you sipping that Merlot again? :lol: :D

Hmmm, I'm 22 so I'm not even considering spending my life with the same girl, even if I would meet my 'dream girl'.
Finding your life partner (or even a serious girlfriend) usually involves some kind of settling down, and I'm not ready to do that.
I've decided that I want to achieve something in my life (work related) and not work only to pay the bills. Ofcourse this means some sacrifices will be made. A serious relationship would only hold me down and effect my decision-making progress.
At the moment I would like to have a relationship that is fun and intense.
Yes, an intense girl is what I want, with lots of different sides.
Not ready for watching romantic movies and cuddling yet. Just bring on the freak show!!!

[wern]

My dream girl would have coco-butter skin, pearly black eyes, intelligent, a great sense of humour, she will be fun to be with, have a great and sexy personality, huge boobies, tight arse, is a vixen in bed, and becomes sexually aroused from the thought of cooking for me, cleaning and washing my dirty jocks.

Her name will be Oonfoofoo, jungle princes.

[Bobo]

My dream woman? Well, I've been married for ten years (well, six years of actual marriage but ten years living together) so I at least know what I don't want.

I'm done with the superficial girls that only care about their looks and success. My wife was one of those career missiles who only care about money, power, success and looks, and quick to judge others to lower classes. Well, she wasn't that bad, she had many good qualities too... but those were more on the surface than the others. I also find those "mother" -type of women who can only think about having babies and then more babies, those annoying bitches that can only talk about how their kids are the best and most gifted and intellect and other kids suck... the ones that talk very loudly about shitty diapers all day long... those "fresh bun" smelling super mothers... very disturbing. Eewww!

This whole small town seem to be full of those family starters who have nothing else in their head than the obsession of having 2,5 kids, a house, a dog and a Volvo station wagon. That mold we all should fit into... the standard life their parents hope to see from them. Well, I would be a proud dad if I had kids, but now that I don't have them I'm more than thankful of that. I'm still free to do anything.

My dream girl? To be honest I really think these small town girls here have nothing to offer me, I've seen enough of them. There have been a few who are more than interested in me, but I'm not sure if they're really after me or my salary. They all want to date "the boss". So, I don't go out much here because I don't think I can find real love here, too small town... everyone knows everyone. When I meet a girl, I want her to be interested in me and not in my education or career. I always try to postpone the subject of my profession... well it isn't that spectacular but I always get this feeling of them getting over-interested the minute I or someone else tell them where I work and what I do there. Maybe I'm just being paranoid, but I can't shake that feeling off. I hate it.

My dream girl... the plan is to find her as far away from this place as possible. The plan is to save enough money, to take at least one full year off work... or more. We have a way to do that by employing a substitute for that time period, sort of "a right" to do that legally here in Finland. I'll just pack a backpack, jump in a plane and go experience the world... as a traveller, not as a Samsonite tourist. I hope to find that similar girl there, in some bungalow on the beach or similar... trekking the world, taking it easy on the beach... climbing the volcanoes... not afraid to get dirty or sweat a bit and doesn't need A/C in her room. Someone who's not too obsessed about advancing in career or getting a family, someone who knows what she wants and not what others expect of her. Someone who won't cry if she breaks a nail or if she can't spend hours for makeup in the morning. That's my dream girl, and she's waiting somewhere out there, experiencing life. My dream girl, somewhere out there... and I will find her some day, I'm sure I will.

[Bobo]

Are you sipping that Merlot again? :lol: :D
Me? Merlot? No way... merlot is for pussies... I prefer wines with some taste. No, I'm not drunk at the moment! :lol:

[Valk]

All wine is for pussies! Real man drink Whiskey (or Bourbon)

[Bobo]

I have a good selection of malt whiskey in my closet. :wink: But despite the fact that I like whiskey I do prefer good red wine over them, so feel free to call me a pussy if You wish! :lol:

[Valk]

Okay:


PUSSY!

[Bobo]

Louder!!! Get that steam out of Your system!!! LOUDER!!! :lol:

[Bobo]

My dream girl would have coco-butter skin, pearly black eyes, intelligent, a great sense of humour, she will be fun to be with, have a great and sexy personality, huge boobies, tight arse, is a vixen in bed, and becomes sexually aroused from the thought of cooking for me, cleaning and washing my dirty jocks.

Her name will be Oonfoofoo, jungle princes.
Hmm... again I made the same mistake of expecting some serious answers on a penis enlargement forum full of 18 (?) y.o. virgins trying to enlarge their dicks thinking it's the most important thing in this world! :lol: What a waste of my time again! :lol:

(well, I didn't really expect anything spectacular anyway) :wink:

[Valk]

Pffff...my story was way better then yours. :x

[Bobo]

Yes, thank You for answering properly, Valk. And ArTee too. :cool

[Valk]

Even if I found a girl with all the qualities I like, it wouldnt mean that I would be attracted to that girl. Attraction doesnt work very logical and happens to you or not.
For example Bobo, you could meet the girl with all the qualities you described.
Obviously, that could/would create a bond between the two of you BUT that doesnt mean the Magical Spark would be there. That Spark doesnt work with logical thinking and pros vs. cons.
Thats why I think its so extremely hard to find your Ultimate Dream Woman.
You need to connect on so many levels.

[Bobo]

Maybe we're setting the word "love" to a too high pedestal, maybe that "magic" doesn't even exist... after all, we're only human. Maybe we're expecting more than our brain can offer.

[Spike]

What you're looking for is out there somewhere - but most people compromise long before and just make do.

[Bobo]

I won't settle for a compromise anymore, I'll rather be alone.

[Spike]

Ditto.......

[Bobo]

Thank GOD for the Fleshlight! :lol:

[Spike]

Bloody hell, I forgot I've been warming it up in the oven for 3 hours!! :lol:

[Bobo]

In the oven? :shock: I think Matt will sell another soon... :lol:

[Spike]

Nah, it'll be shrink to fit now. :lol:

[Bobo]

You can make a keychain of it now, stays warm in Your pocket! :D

[Valk]

Maybe we're setting the word "love" to a too high pedestal, maybe that "magic" doesn't even exist... after all, we're only human. Maybe we're expecting more than our brain can offer.

I wasnt talking about deep-rooted love. I was talking about that first attraction that happens, based on looks, attitude, charisma and chemistry.
That attraction has nothing to do with logic thinking (ie: I would like a girl with these qualities etc).

[Spike]

Maybe offer it as a prize for one the "junior" members here.

[wern]

Sorry for the silly post Bobo, but I don't really have a "dream girl". I suppose if I was looking to settle down I'd want osmeone who is intensley loyal, who is smart, well-mannered and who connects with me on a very deep level. She would be at least average-looking and not overweight.

Your career affects the perception women will have of you. Women instinctively look for someone strong who will be able to support a family. So women look for men with financial stability and good jobs or good prospects because it shows that the man isn't some lazy bum letting life drift by. They want men that go after their goals and achieve them, men that are future oriented because (according to some books I've read) when a woman is summing up a man she is thinking of them as a couple in the future, not in the present.

I think the notion that a woman will like/love you for "who you are" without a care for what you earn is a false hope because most people desire money no matter what they tell you. The important thing is that you feel a strong deep connection.

[Spike]

What the books say and what happens in real life seem to be two different things. If two people ever do meet their "second half", "soul mate" then all the rules and preconceptions fly out of the window - job, money, looks don't really matter shit. It's only people making compromises that calculate that stuff.

[Valk]

But the "soul-mate" and "second-half" talk could be crap just as likely.
I think people themselves give others the label "soul-mate". I dont think its a universal phenomenon, just like "love" isnt.

What are your experiences with these kind of things?

[MagnumXL]

Well, describing a real woman is going to be a list of the usual - sexy, good looking, intelligent, sense of humour, fun to be with, great personality, nice tits, nice arse, likes sex, likes cooking, cleaning and washing things, etc etc.

And brown eyes.


Bwhahahahahaha.

[Mr.Bigs]

my dream girl has the cutest face with seductive eyes and sexy medium size lips ... long dark colored hair ... 34-36 b-c tits ... a wide ass that pokes out .... small waist ... thick thighs ... slim tummy ... nice legs

.... yup thats all i need and what i got :D

[The Big Banana]

If you wait around for your dream girl youre probably going to die a lonely old man.

[Spike]

But the "soul-mate" and "second-half" talk could be crap just as likely.
I think people themselves give others the label "soul-mate". I dont think its a universal phenomenon, just like "love" isnt.

What are your experiences with these kind of things?

The real thing is as rare as rocking-horse shit, you meet someone about once every 10 years in my experience, and they are usually not your "dream" girl - very average looking.

But it is a numbers game, the more women you meet, the better chance you have of finding someone. That's why most people meet at school/university/work/their social circle, when they're around 20-25. After 25 youre' reduced to work colleagues and social meetings, both of which tend to remain pretty static. It's worse if you prefer being self-employed,working from home doing something you enjoy 16 hours a day or drag yourself off to small town Finland (for example) and are the boss in the facory where most people work.

Also I'm sure some people do retrospectively label each other "soul mates" because they didn't marry their dream partner and have settled for "they'll do" and fear being alone again and having to start the search all over again.

[Bobo]

I think the notion that a woman will like/love you for "who you are" without a care for what you earn is a false hope because most people desire money no matter what they tell you. The important thing is that you feel a strong deep connection.
That's very well said, but despite of how true that is, I don't want to settle for that. I don't want to be loved because I can bring stability to the family so she can please her parents by making them a grandchild or two, the thing they've been talking about for years. I won't settle for that standard mold we all should squeeze into. I have no problems thinking of living my whole life alone, doing whatever I want without having to report to some nagging bitch. My dream girl fits into that mold, she's not obsessed on pleasing her parents by breeding, she knows what she wants. Well, I'm of course not saying every girl who wants kids are only blindly pleasing their parents, of course there are those who really want to have a family. But because it's not my obsession, a girl like that can't be my "dream girl". I won't seek for her either, I just go with the flow... and if I meet her then I'm really happy, but I won't waste my life being sorry for myself if I don't.

[The Big Banana]

So you dont want any kids Bobo? I'd like one, maybe two maximum, but not for a while.

[Bobo]

Maybe some day, but not right now. That will happen with the dream girl if the time comes and we both feel that way, but I don't even want to think about kids when I'm not in a relationship. It's something I may plan with some girl some day, but it's not something I'd be obsessed with like most of the population is. It is possible to live a good life without having kids.

[The Big Banana]

Dont get me wrong, if I never have kids I wont lose any sleep over it. However kids are the only reason I'd ever get married. No need to take that extra step otherwise, in my opinion.

[Netgear]

dont you think that "extra step" will help to keep that dream girl yours and give her less of an incentive to whore around, if shes your wife its a bit more binding than just being you ladyfriend or someone your seeing?

[The Big Banana]

My dream girl wouldnt whore around... unless it was something kinky that I wanted.

[Valk]

The real thing is as rare as rocking-horse shit, you meet someone about once every 10 years in my experience, and they are usually not your "dream" girl - very average looking.

But it is a numbers game, the more women you meet, the better chance you have of finding someone. That's why most people meet at school/university/work/their social circle, when they're around 20-25. After 25 youre' reduced to work colleagues and social meetings, both of which tend to remain pretty static. It's worse if you prefer being self-employed,working from home doing something you enjoy 16 hours a day or drag yourself off to small town Finland (for example) and are the boss in the facory where most people work.

Also I'm sure some people do retrospectively label each other "soul mates" because they didn't marry their dream partner and have settled for "they'll do" and fear being alone again and having to start the search all over again.

So how did you meet your younger girlfriend(s) then, since you are self-employed and working from home?

Damn, I really hate getting old. :x Trapped in a office for 8 hours a day, running home as soon the clock strikes 5, dinner, watching tele till 11, sleep and the cycle repeats itself. :?
And the weird thing is: its sounds even more exciting then the life I'm leading now. :?

[wern]

Valk, I have the same fear. I think the answer for that situation is to get a hobby. I think that's why people have hobbies - women do gardening and keep social circles and host get-togethers etc, men have our toys, like building model airplains and trains or golfing etc.

Bobo, I don't know what the culture is like in Finland, but in Australia, it is not normal for a woman to have kids primarily to please her parents. I would be disgusted if I found out my wife, or wife-to-be, had that as her motive. I believe women want kids because of their maternal instinct, something that is imprinted in their genes and so they mostly don't have control over this "desire". They can try to shut it out, but the desire will still be there. Again, it may be different in Finland.

The sort of woman you are looking for, one that isn't concerned at all with material possetions or kids, sounds like the hippy/buddhist type. I don't like that type personally, because I work hard for what I have and I prefer a woman to appreciate that about me, rather than simply blow it off.

[wern]

Dont get me wrong, if I never have kids I wont lose any sleep over it. However kids are the only reason I'd ever get married. No need to take that extra step otherwise, in my opinion.

I can't think of any other reason for getting married myself TBB. I think it's an outdated arrangement in modern Australia.

[Valk]

Marriage is something for bored celebrities, not for us.

[wern]

You've got a point there. it's always fun to see them get divorced in front of the whole world :lol: That's the real entertainment that they provide me.

[Shane_Bos]

Marriage is pretty much something for women. Its a symbol of the bond you share, women like that shit.

Anyway, my dream girl has to be atleast average looking, so not ugly. However, she has to have a great body but tits are one thing im not too bothered about, they could be massive or small but aslong as the rest of their body's nice them im happy. I do have a thing for women with skin colour like Halle Berry but skin colours not an issue.

I cant really describe a perfect personality for me very well. Basically, they cant be high strung, they have to be laid back and easy going. Kinda like a man is, yknow, rational and just sort of take life as it comes without having to plan things all the time.

At the moment, my ex would have been my perfect partner cos she was like this. She wasnt petit and we only ever had one argument in 9 months, and that was because i did something she asked me not to. Oh well.

[Bobo]

I only got married because my (ex) wife kept on pressuring me about the subject. "If You love me, You will marry me"... "why won't You marry me, don't You love me?"... that kind of shit, kept going on and on... and after about three years (!) of that I finally gave up and married her. Now we're divorced... go figure. :roll: :lol:

[wern]

Only one word for that - women...

[Bobo]

:lol: Very true. Women... they're weird.

[Valk]

Okay, you guys can entertain the lads and I will deal with the ladies. :cool

[The Assman]

My perfect dream girl aint too far from the one i got right now...
Gotta be a country girl!
Nice tan skin
Brunette
obviously in shape with a d-cup!
Got a good job and is independent, but not tooo independent
Faithful
and can ride that dick like no girl can!!:twisted: :twisted:

[Tiger_Penis]

My dream girl...

She would be tall, some where between 5'8 and 5'11. She would have a megawatt smile and amazing curves.

She would be smart and sarcastic. She would be driven and compassionate. She would know what to do when I was angry.

She would also have an infectious laugh. I love laugher.

[Rum_Runner]

Toucking fellas very touching. Mine would have a remote:mrgreen

[The Assman]

Oh ya an i almost forgot, she is a freak the bedroom, willin to do wtv...:twisted:

[Tiger_Penis]

Toucking fellas very touching. Mine would have a remote:mrgreen

That would be nice also. I do like arguing sometimes with my girlfriend. you know why?

Angry sex is AWESOME.

[Rum_Runner]

I all falls under the title sex is awsome.

[ownd]

dark, brazilian, black hair, green eyes, fake tits, perfect big firm ass, no hair anywhere, funny, very smart, compassionate, affectionate, high sex drive, non confrontational, loyal, good sense of humor, good morales.

[The Assman]

Wow bro...thats was a good fantasy i had right there imagining that! i like the way u think...:cool

[Rum_Runner]

I have always been attracted to tall women, 5'10"" to 6'3". Slender soft white milky skin. Blue or Green eyes, redish blonde hair the right amount of freckles. A constant glow about her that does not need make-up. Toned by curvy, a bubble butt and at least a C cup. She has to have good looking feet. She has to have a pussy that tastes good to absolutely amazing.

Will post her personality traits later

[The Assman]

Since im pretty short, well not that short (5'8'') i dont like a women to be taller then me. My ideal height would be 5'5''...i like to take control be able to pick her an throw her around...:mrgreen

[Rum_Runner]

I am 5'10" I love sticking it to taller chics. I just love the way other guys look at you when you are with a tall attractive woman.:mrgreen They are like what the fuck does that guy have that I do not.

[Steve Madden]

I like a girl who's sweet, got a decent sense of humor (ie tolerates my ridiculous behavior), is just a touch naive (I just don't go for the jaded or no-it-all types), and generally lots of fun. I want a girl who enjoys going out and engaging in sporting activities, but who also is a bit of a stay at home and knows how to appreciate a rainy Sunday on the couch.

Physically I don't have too many rigid specifics. I find myself most often really attracted to light featured girls; blue eyes, naturally sandy/dark blondish hair (hate the coloring), nice long legs (I love ample thighs; no cellulite or anything like that, but a good long leg with some smooth meat on it just cannot be topped) , good skin, shapely feet (not a fetishist, but I do love a good arch; I find it very feminine), a nicely shaped ass (toned or a touch jiggly; the shape is the most important thing), a long torso (abdomins are very, very sexy), and smaller to medium perky breasts (with a certain nice shape, and nipples that are not too dark, too small or too large). Oh and I'm partial to shorter/medium length hair with some nice layers around the face, and I prefer a woman who looks her sexiest right out of bed (little to no makeup, etc.).

Is that so much to ask?

[Steve Madden]

Since im pretty short, well not that short (5'8'') i dont like a women to be taller then me. My ideal height would be 5'5''...i like to take control be able to pick her an throw her around...:mrgreen

Tall ones are the easiest to control as they've got a high center of gravity. Grab them by the legs and they're going down; all you've got to do is haul/sling them where you want to stick it to them and hope they're the complacent type.